ok im not stupid but i guess this is kid of a stupid question.ive known this guy for allmost 2 years and weve been going out for a little more than a month and i know he`ll stick with me if i have sex with him but im still not sure about it.please give me a rough idea of how long i should wait.IM me at touchingwildhorses@yahoo.com
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2006-09-24 10:27:05 · 23 answers · asked by Showcaster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s.i`m not a virgin for all of yall asking
2006-09-24 10:52:00 · update #1
WHEN YOUR MARRIED! ! ! !
2006-09-24 10:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first age matters then if you are a virgin that's a different story but if you are going to have sex with this guy to keep him you are making a big mistake because if he really likes you he will wait however long. Now if you are over 18 years and you are not a virgin and you want a little go for it girl!!!
2006-09-24 17:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by beautifulstars 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unitl you get married is the right thing to say. But most people do not do that anymore. Until you have time to get to know him really in the best way that you can, and see if you share interests, and morals-------well you can wait as long as you would like too, or longer. No one likes easy women. They may say that they do, but it is not true, and remember you have to live with what you do decide, sex is something that you can get when you cannot get food to eat, love, or a roof over your head. Babies come with sex too, do not forget that either.
2006-09-24 17:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until marrage it will be hard but thats how you'll find out if he really loves you but if you must have sex set a six month rule at least. My boyfrined and I have been together for 7 months (on the first) and we haven't had sex. We see each other all the time and he respects me for not giving up my panties.
2006-09-24 17:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, unless you are Cleo, you don't know he will stick with you when you have sex with him. There is no time limit on when to have sex. It's when HE asks you to marry him and puts a ring on your finger that you can sort of trust him to have some kind of a committment. At least if you have a ring on and he screws up everyone will know it's his fault and you get to keep the ring.
2006-09-24 17:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u are ready.don't make a guy make u have sex if u don't wanna have sex.i think u should waite still u find the right guy and ur positive about him.cause sometime if haeve have sex and something happen to u like U get prregnant and he don't take responsipilty for that.I DON'T THINK U WANNA BE A SINGLE PARENT. THEN WHAT.THINK ABOU IT THAT THE DECISION THAT U MAKING IS RIGHT.
2006-09-24 17:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you WHEN to have sex. Only you can decide for yourself. After all, you're the one that's gonna be living w/it the rest of your life. Everyone is different. Go w/what you feel is right. You said he would stick w/you if you had sex w/him. If that's the ONLY reason he'll stay w/you that is bullshit and you shouldn't give it up. If a guy loves you and respects you, he will wait forever.
2006-09-24 17:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by spankedelic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I waited until 2 years with a girl.
2006-09-24 17:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait long enough, be in love and know each other very-very well. Having sex is not the ultimate. It sounds you have more sex in mind then the real love. Be careful or join the gang of crying and complaining girls for whole life.
2006-09-24 17:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best to wait till after marriage.
I dated my wife for 4-1/2 years and we didn't have sex till our wedding night. Believe me, it was well worth the wait and it was something to look forward to.
If you have pre-Martial sex. What is the sense of a Honey Moon and what will you have to wait for?
If he truly loves you, he will wait.
2006-09-24 17:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by EHS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months
2006-09-24 17:28:41 · answer #11 · answered by justthetwoofus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋