i broke up with my ex-boyfriend about a month ago now. we are still friends - kinda - because we share the same friends and we do hang out. He is still really upset that i broke up with him. Anyways, on friday there was a dance at our school (im gr.11) he said he didnt want to come to the dance (because of me, of course) but me and my friend made him come and he was all being depressed but then we got him to stay. There were this girl who is kind of a friend who got drunk and she was all being really close to my ex-bf and i was really jealous. not jealous but mad kind of... and the sad thing is I broke up with him! and then his ex-gf came and danced with him once and that got me upset too. I know he still likes me.. but does it sound like i like him back?
2006-09-24 10:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be, or you just don't want anyone else to have him...Humans are a weird species, we want what we cant have and don't want whats in front of us...If you think things could work out give it a try but, think about why you broke with him and if its worth giving it another shot...
2006-09-24 10:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a teenager is such a complicated time in your life and boys don't make it any easier for you. The jealousy tells me that you are definitely NOT over him and it sounds like your ex is still pretty hung up on you too.
I don't really know the 411 on your break up to begin with, but if he was being a cad and cheating on you; then don't go back to him. If you to split up because things were getting to serious and you need to cool things off a little then by all means consider it.
Sometimes young love or puppy love is many a mysterious thing in a young girls heart. I remember being your age and fighting with my boyfriend, breaking up and going back together again. Talk about getting jealous, I got into many a fight with other girls when they got close to my territory.
He would make me darn mad, that I would threaten to ship him one way to Siberia. After I had him drawn and quartered like the dirty rotten no good dog he was. When did split up I would be such a witch with a capital B that my friends would tell me to "take a chill pill".
As much as this sucks for you, it is all part of the process of growing up. It doesn't get any better as you get older either. If you still like the guy, take things slow and try dating again. You are still very young and their is plenty of fish in the sea.
Good Luck.
2006-09-24 10:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Gotta Love My GSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you still have many of young boy's to fall in love with the rest of your life, until you really find the special someone and then when you get Married it becomes a whole new experience. Keep your goal, finish school, see what is out there, you will see that life has a lot more to give then being stupid or depressed over some boy.
2006-09-24 10:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it has to do with age. And depending on if you really feel that you do not want to be with him, maybe you should talk some time to do seperate things without him included. Let him find people that he can be with as friends. Jealous is one thing, control another. You cannot have your cake and eat it too
2006-09-24 10:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound as if you like him. It sounds more as if you just don't want him to get over you. Be a real friend and let him find some happiness. That way when you get a new guy he will not try to be in the middle.
2006-09-24 10:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the time you spend together can increase, then by all means go out with him. There aren't too many guys you can describe as sweet, funny and georgeous. I say give it another try. If it doesn't work, then you'll know you tried and can move on.
2016-03-27 07:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still do like him. You can two do things about him tell him that you still like him and that you are sorry that you broke up with him. You can also just find another guy to like. Wish you the best of luck. Good luck.
2006-09-24 10:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW u broke up with him for some reason didnt you - think about it
2006-09-24 10:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give him 1 more chance, because he's thinking about and or thinking about him, so just give him one chance, and see what will happen .....just don't be like me, i gave this boy a chance to date me, and we dated for 2 years ..now just think about if u want to date him, or not , just don't mix up your mined ... like i did .. so just see what will happen...good luck .....peace out
2006-09-24 10:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart tell you?
thats the answer
2006-09-24 10:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by SCSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋