Just need insight...thank you?

Question

My ex and I started talking again. I brought up the idea of dating, because we are past the friendship stage. He says that we need to start over,at zero. Reason we broke up is that we moved too fast. He says that I am his first choice and that he wants to make this work. His mom and I still talked even though me and him weren't. He has our picture up the whole time and got a tattoo after we broke up, one i gave him I went to his house to talk to him and it was not up. His mom called me and we talked after him and I talked, I told her about the picture, and she said its there. I said it was no where to be seen when I was there and she was like, well its there now. I don't know what to think of all this. He took my pic down, and put it back up.... I am gonna be friends with him, but I'm thinkin if I was his first choice, we would be dating to start again, not start over at zero where I would be at a level with all his girl friends. What do you think of the situation?

Answer 1

"Reason we broke up is that we moved too fast". Your statement is your answer. Don't move too fast this time. See where it goes and enjoy it. It might last a life time or it might end up being you are suited better as just friends.

Answer 2

Someone is not being straight with you, mom says pic is up, you go over and the pic is not there, is he putting it up and taking it down that fast or that much, it is a little weird. He may be taking it down when he has company over, just a thought. I would start over even at a dating point but it would have to be exclusive dating. Good luck.

Answer 3

Don't be confused! YOU can do better than him! Relax, sit down and think of what you want in a relationship. When you are really ready you'll move foreword with someone better and you'll be a better person too.