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Four days ago in school, we had an opening in the schedule and all the guys decided to go play basketball. The girls just stayed outside next to the cafeteria, talking and fouling around. I don’t really like basketball so I stayed with the girls. I was talking with two girls, they where smiling and then without warning a girl grabbed me by the balls and started squeezing, the others noticed and started giggling! The thought of going for her eyes, punching her neck bone, or just knock her out with a punch crossed my mind instinctively, but I did not wanted to hurt her, until it was too late because I started feeling too bad and weak to fight back, and to my surprise she squeezed for a hole minute! If a girl was being abused, me and the guys would kill the freak, but when the roles are reversed, instead of helping me, the girls where all laughing and cheering the hole time!

2006-09-24 10:07:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Then I was on the floor holding myself; I could not breathe or speak; what a horrible feeling all thru my body and the excruciating pain was spreading up to my stomach. They just stood there watching me for a long time, and every time I did something that showed agony they laughed, and not only that, I could tell that some of them where clearly aroused!!! I finally got up and walked away, and then I noticed a lady watching me with a big grim on her stupid face. I fell so violated and humiliated. And in the past few days, sometimes girls that I do not know pass by me and joke with me by asking me how my balls are.
The back of my left testicle is still hurting, especially when I walk, and is not getting any better. What should I do?

2006-09-24 10:07:30 · update #1

15 answers

same answer as i give for the other four same questions. stupid

2006-09-24 15:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

hey man at least she didnt kick you there that hurts a lot worse lol i feel your pain have been there and if she wants to fight like a man then she needs to be treated as such you say there were several witnesses to the happenings you can do several things first if you are willing to report it to your schools administration you can go that route and have the whole sexual harrassment or assault thing brought up if you feel as though you recieved physical damage to your most prized body part then you should see a doctor and hae everything documented that he finds wrong with you and take that with you to the school or you can have your parents file suit for damages in court but as for me i would just suck it up and let it go unless you think you have a chance at dating this girl or one of the other girls that was there as for your testicle hurting i would say ice it some it may help but probably what happened is you got a little bruising there and its going to hurt for a week or so so just take it like a man and let it all go in my book

2006-09-24 10:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by wrenchbender19 5 · 0 1

Go to the doctor, make sure you're okay, then give the girl's parents a copy of the doctor's bill, and explain to them exactly what it's for. That might seem petty and silly, but lots of girls don't understand that you can seriously injure a guy doing that! She was way out of line.

2006-09-24 10:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 1 1

First of all you need to go to the doctor, and second of all you shouldve punched that ***** in her face. I know that if some guy was touchin me i would have socked him a good one. She could have really hurt you and she needs to be punished for it

2006-09-24 10:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by danielle 2 · 1 1

Ummm that's assault...if I were you, I'd report it. Nobody has the right to do that. Girls are protected under certain laws & guys should be too. Don't take that crap from anyone!!!

2006-09-24 10:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 1 0

YOU SHOULD REPORT THAT GIRL AND THAT LADY TO THE SCHOOL PRINCIPAL AND GO TO THE DOCTOR IF YOU'RE NOT GETTIN BETTER CUZ OBVIOUSLY THERES SOMETHING WRONG!! THAT WASN'T VERY NICE TO DO TO YOU, I'M SORRY THAT HAPPENED!!!

2006-09-24 10:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 1 0

give her a nipple twister! She wont touch you ever again.
When girls ask how your balls are, tell them it is nice of them to offer to ease the pain! theyll leave you alone in no time!!

2006-09-24 10:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0 1

Some facts about testicle trauma:
-It may cause the victim to throw up.
-It may cause the victim to passout.
-It may cause “testicular torsion”, by initiating a muscle spasm; this is rare but is a medical emergency, testicular torsion may not happen immediately after the trauma.
-Testicles move freely and are slippery to avoid trauma, but if the trauma sustained by the testicle is hard enough (50Kg), the testicle will POP(rupture), and then probably must be removed. This is rare, and usually is associated with sport injuries when not wearing a cup. Even when can be repaired, the resulting inflammation will turn most of the contents into permanent damaged material.
-Even a medium force trauma will cause the destruction of spermatozoa-production cells. It will not cause sterility because those cells are in massive quantities, however those cells do not regenerate, it is permanent damage. And if hit many times or too hard, it may cause infertility, because the sperm count/mobility must be acceptable in order to get a woman pregnant by natural means.
-Will also reduce spermatozoa production as a result of hormonal changes, one of those changes is testosterone reduction.
-Erection problems.
-May damage the epididymis, and that is critical, because sperm must be stored there to gain mobility to be able to swim.
-May rupture major blood vessels, and draining the scrotum will be needed. Or microscopic veins inside the testicles, this will permanently destroy cells indirectly.
-In case of very hard trauma, the testicle/s can swell for more than a weak, with resulting excruciating pain and severe damage from prolonged heavy inflammation. The swelling it is similar to mumps, but in the case of mumps it will cause sterility for sure, and the testicles(usually just one) will shrink too, very sad and scary.
-In some cases may cause the antibodies to start attacking the person own sperm.
-It may even cause death as result of PAIN, heart will fail right away or will begin to fail(heart beat will became fast and irregular, usually face and lips very white) until finally stops, this is called “neurogenic shock”, and it is not that rare like people think, most of the times the victim is saved because gets medical attention on time, it will need shocks to the heart using the defibrillator!.
-Among other symptoms, the victim will feel shock/panic/confusion/anger, violated/abused, embarrassment/humiliation; those feelings will be stronger if young; especially if they do not know or never heard about “kicking in the groin”. The victim may seem ok, but will try to hide those feelings. It depends on the person and from the situation. This will lead to Post-Traumatic Stress, the worse symptoms may only reveal a year later! People forget about emotional trauma, but it is the worse, and will not go away like the physical suffering. All men that “like” the fetish called “ballbusting”, have some kind of mental or emotional disorder; and the most common cause for that is because it happened to them in the past, they are psychologically very ill, it may change their life’s completely. The emotional trauma of being assaulted in such a private area, or the physical suffering, or the fact that it is a barbaric act, should be more than enough for girls not to do that; but the sad truth is that the only thing that make some(not all for sure) girls think twice before doing that is the permanent physical damage. It is a form of rape, male rape.
-Physical violence it is only acceptable if you are trying to defend/escape yourself from someone that is trying to use physical violence on you, and you may only use the necessary violence to ESCAPE harm, escape not to seek revenge. And kicking someone in the groin is only “acceptable” if someone is trying to kill you, or rape you(only extreme EMERGENCIES), not because you are pissed off, and most certainly not for fun like it is most of the times, keep it a fantasy(why you girls don’t tell your Dads what you did, I am sure they will be PROUD of you).
-Ironically, if someone is trying to kill you or rape you, probably is expecting that defense from you, and so you will not be able to kick him.
You also have the right to use that defense if you are attacked by a STRANGER, and NO ONE ELSE IS AROUND, you never know his intentions. But you have no right to use that defense if you are attacked by a stranger or not, in a place where are other people around, like in school, or at home with your family, or in a bar, etc.
-This is becoming too popular, specially in schools, girls get sexually aroused by that!. Women look sweet, but…….they are very mean and cruel by nature, they just try to hide it, it is very sad. Lucky for women men are not very vindictive like women are, and men are not very aggressive towards women like women are towards men, in fact men are very protective towards women. Men do not even hit back after getting kicked in the privates. Men like to see and touch women sexual organs, they do not like to hurt them or to see it happen to women. Women are so much sensitive about their sexual organs and sexuality, but then do that to men and laugh! Laughing at someone that is hit there, will only increase the suffering, and will show that you are very mean and cruel, at least try to keep it to yourself.
-And nothing happens to those sex offenders because they are women, just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse!

“women justice” is sick, how about if it was the other way around?!!!!!!!
Girls answers regarding this issue are always disgusting!

2006-09-24 11:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by miniboi6666 2 · 2 1

dude, if someone goes for the nuts, man or woman, defend yourself for the love of God

2006-09-24 10:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 1 1

next time you see here, kick her in the crotch or you can file assualt charges

2006-09-24 10:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0 1

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