Four days ago in school, we had an opening in the schedule and all the guys decided to go play basketball. The girls just stayed outside next to the cafeteria, talking and fouling around. I don’t really like basketball so I stayed with the girls. I was talking with two girls, they where smiling and then without warning a girl grabbed me by the balls and started squeezing, the others noticed and started giggling! The thought of going for her eyes, punching her neck bone, or just knock her out with a punch crossed my mind instinctively, but I did not wanted to hurt her, until it was too late because I started feeling too bad and weak to fight back, and to my surprise she squeezed for a hole minute! If a girl was being abused, me and the guys would kill the freak, but when the roles are reversed, instead of helping me, the girls where all laughing and cheering the hole time!
2006-09-24 10:05:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Then I was on the floor holding myself; I could not breathe or speak; what a horrible feeling all thru my body and the excruciating pain was spreading up to my stomach. They just stood there watching me for a long time, and every time I did something that showed agony they laughed, and not only that, I could tell that some of them where clearly aroused!!! I finally got up and walked away, and then I noticed a lady watching me with a big grim on her stupid face. I fell so violated and humiliated. And in the past few days, sometimes girls that I do not know pass by me and joke with me by asking me how my balls are.
The back of my left testicle is still hurting, especially when I walk, and is not getting any better. What should I do?
2006-09-24 10:05:30 · update #1
its your fault for letting it happen and not reporting it - you stupid idiot.
2006-09-24 10:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
I would like to state that some girls are freaks and get off on having that kind of control over a guy. That chick knew what she was doing and knew what would follow. Either she has a total crush on you or she was being a B and making you look like a fool. Girls are just odd. I do understand what you mean about men and women differing. Get better and next time protect the jewels. Telling her to let go or grabbing her wrist to make her let go is just self defense. If all that fails I say give a titty twist and you're good. I'm a chick and I know better than that. If that was my school days that girl would have been smacked. Hope you feel better and the jokes will die at some point and someone new will take your place. It's the circle of stupidity. Take care.
2016-03-27 07:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to
1) Tell your parents
2) See your doctor, ASAP
3) Have your parents discuss this with school authorities.
Sounds like someone thought they were doing something funny. In reality, you were the victim of abuse/harrassment.
It doesn't matter if you are male or female, you have the right to feel safe in your own school. You were embarrassed, AND you were physically hurt. Not cool.
Wrong is wrong. It doesn't matter WHO did it, it's wrong, and it needs to be made clear that this type of behavior is NOT going to be allowed to happen at school.
Don't let this happen to someone else. And if the adult who witnessed this was a teacher or school employee, the School Board should be notified.
You need to be safe at school. Don't put up with this crap. Let your parents know what happened and let them raise hell.
I hope that you're feeling better (physically and emotionally) soon!
2006-09-27 20:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by AD J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, report her to your school principal. She needs to get into trouble. Don't feel sorry for her or feel bad if you report her. She needs to get into trouble. It's not OK for a girl to do something like that. You don't want all the other girls to think that it's OK to do that to a guy do you??? If she faces no consequences then other girls will think you can get away with grabbing a guy by the balls and hurting him.
That is dangerous for a guy. A guy can get hurt down there and not be able to have kids later in life when he wants them.
Report her to your Principal or School counselor.
2006-09-24 10:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tired-Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents what happened now! They need to tell the principal and you need to also see a doctor. While those girls may look at it as funny, that action could have caused you some permenant damage. I know you may feel too humiliated to tell your parents, but , as a parent, if it happened to my son, I'd want to know and I would make sure that it wouldn't happen again.
Also, who was that "lady" you mentioned who watched all this happening? Was that a teacher? If so, the prinicpal needs to know about that too.
2006-09-24 10:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by tonyend2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow....I'm so sorry that happened. You do need to have it checked out if it still hurts. Women are taught violence against men is ok to protect ourselves(but sometimes I don't think it is taught that it is only ok when we are in danger). Men are taught it is never ok to hit women, but in our changing times and this situation she needed something. I don't know exactly what. By the time you probably figured out she was serious, it was just too late. Women can be so mean, I know, I'm one. I know that a situation like this can be very stressful and traumatic. Try to find the good in it (i.e. I will never let a women violate me like that again, I'm going to learn to allow my body to ignore pain like this, I'm going to tak self-defense classes etc.). Even if you don't think you ever want children, please go to the doctor because an injury like this can do more than effect the ability to have children(i.e. like getting/maintaining erections etc.).
2006-09-24 11:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by its me! 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would let the principal or who ever is in charge of the school know.
Then i would get checked out by a doctor,
and if there is any permanent damage.
I would sue the child or her parents.
You may need an attorney.
Then i would consider changing professions
I'm sure you've herd horror stories of false allegations.
2006-09-24 10:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that is messed up, and I am not a big fan of men. You should report her to the principle what she did is really wrong and you are have physical and psychological repercussions. I would also go see a doctor. I also don't believe in men hitting women but she sounds like she needs a swift kick. I am sorry that happened to you.
2006-09-24 10:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by crct2004 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Go to the doctors as soon as possible. They could be broken or even worse you might not be able to have children. Sorry to hear about that. Good luck. Hope you feel better.
2006-09-24 10:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
how old r u? im 14 and my answer is if she was just playing u should have squeezed her boob back but if she was trying to hurt u that's a whole nother story
2006-09-24 10:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, go to see a doctor. Second it's too late to do anything so just let it go eventually it will all pass and they'll be laughing at someone else
2006-09-24 10:09:56 · answer #11 · answered by baloo_99_dmajor 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋