WELL I HAVE THIS BOYFRIEND & HE KISSED THIS ONE GIRL! I GOT REALLY MAD, HE KEEPS TELLING ME HE'S REALLY SORRY & THAT IT WONT HAPPENED AGAIN! HE SAYS THAT HE DOESN'T REALLY KNOW WHAT HAPPENED THAT DAY THAT HE DIDN'T MEANT TO DO IT! HE TELLS ME HE REALLY LOVES ME A LOT! I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO I WAS PLANNING TO BREAK UP BUT I THINK EVERYONE DESERVES ONE CHANCE IN LIFE SO I GAVE HIM ONE! & THAT GIRL TELLS ME HE BE CHEATING ON ME WITH HER & HE TELLS ME TO NOT BELIEVE HER THAT SHE JUST WANTS TO BREAK US APART CUZ SHES LIKE A LITTLE PLAYER A STUPID TRICK! SO HOPEFULLY IT WONT HAPPEN AGAIN BUT I JUST CANT GET OVER THAT!
2006-09-24 10:04:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are going to give him a second chance then you have to get over it, otherwise it is not a second chance it is just as bad as what he done. I would try to seek out better knowledge of that day and what happened and if he is lieing still about the events of that day and didn't come clean with you then give him the boot. Good luck.
2006-09-24 10:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know in you heart who is telling the truth. That said, until you are married, the field is wide open, for the both of you. Dating other people is not a bad thing, lying about it certainly is. Hard as this may be for you to hear, tell your boyfriend that really don't care who he sees, just remember to keep safe sex a priority. Once he sees that you are perfectly willing to turn him loose, he will probably, if he truly does love you,
be the one who will insist upon monogamy in your relationship, if that is what you really want. The same applies to the "other woman", once she knows you don't care what they do, she'll probably lose interest.
2006-09-24 10:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Otter's Waters 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay. If he kissed her and she tells you that he is cheating on you with her...is there really a question here? Your guy got caught with his hand in the cookie jar. If he is dogging her and telling you that she is just trying to break you up, then why did he kiss her in the first place. It sounds to me like your guy is the player. Also, of course he is going to tell you that he is really sorry, etc. Like I said, he got caught and there is no man alive that wants to deal with a woman scorned.
2006-09-24 10:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't forgive those types of people. After you forgive your boy friend, he's just going to kiss another girl again. Even though he's appoligizing, he wouldn't change. Tip, get rid of him and find someone better. ^^
2006-09-24 10:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way dump him, later on if he says i got to go somewhere in a middle of a late night date he might be at her house making her cozy.
2006-09-24 10:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by da202101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say you forgive him. in life, give everyone a 2nd chance, even if they don't deserve it, cuz people can always change for the better.
2006-09-24 10:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by (( .gabi♥. )) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he deserves a second chance. everyone does. If he ends up doing it again........second chances don't happen twice.
2006-09-24 10:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not forgive your boyfriend for kissing another girl.
2006-09-24 10:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can i would try to believe it was an accident but if it happens again Bye Bye Boyfriend
2006-09-24 10:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by SweetiePie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't forgive unless some conditions attached for future similar excursions
2006-09-24 10:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Freddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋