my fiance and me have lived together for 5 years but we only have sex once every 3 weeks,he constantly stays up playing xbox and playstation,im frustrated i need some love should i ditch him?i tell him what i want he doesnt seem bothered i dont want to lose my house please help
2006-09-24 10:02:12 · 37 answers · asked by brumdiva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put some porn in the DVD player and turn it up so he can hear it. That will lure him away form the play station and into your bed.
2006-09-24 10:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have sex every 3 weeks is it good? I know that for most people it takes work to keep a sexual relationship spicey and if you aren't into role play or toys or fruit/food you might have a long way to go in terms of making your sex life exciting. Maybe ask him who his fantasy girl is and be that girl for that night. He's probably already thinking it anyway. I just think most people get bored with sex because the mystery of the person - spirit and body - is gone by the time you've been in it five years. Now, my aunt and uncle are in their fifties and they still go at it like rabbits but they travel together and work to keep things spicey. Add some spice!
2006-09-24 10:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Donovan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone can answer this question they have found the key to the universe!! LOL.
I've been there, not as bad off as you but I've been there. First you need to set down and talk to your fiance. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you are feeling neglected. If he doesn't change then it's time for you to move on. Marriage will not change him, if you can't take it now it will be even worse when you marry. Sorry it's a tough choice but he's gonna have to choose. Maybe you can talk to him about limiting his gaming habits to about 2 hours a day. Set an alarm. At first this may seem harsh but if he's like my husband then he's not realizing how much time he is spending on it. He has an addiction, he needs to limit himself. Hope this helps
2006-09-24 10:09:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have options: -
1) Dump him.
2) Talk to him about pepping up your sex life.
3) Wear some nice undies or something he will like and surprise him
4) Text him naughty thoughts!
5) Take his playstation apart remove a small piece of the stuff inside and put it back together again - he he
6) Buy a game you both like playing on the playstation and try to get closer again.
Good luck!
2006-09-24 10:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a wake up call. If u were my fiance, u would get the lions share of my attention. If he is not willing to change leave him, u deserve to be happy and enjoy ur life. Don't play second fiddle to a computer (says the man on one). Good luck with what u decide.
2006-09-24 10:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him an ultimatum, say to him its you or the playstation, if he still persist's on playing that thing then get rid.... there obviously seems to be a problem with your sex life if he only wants to play that, he should show you that he loves you and cares for you, or you could try to seduce him, if he still prefers the playstion then you have got your answer, Dump him.... and find someone who wants to be with you and start fresh...
2006-09-24 10:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years is far too long to have put up with that crap ! Do what you have to do! If he want listen then throw the xbox, playstation or what ever out the house or give it away
2006-09-24 10:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop nagging him and make him want you. i had the same problem once. you need to spice up your relationship up again like it was when you first got together.that's how i got mine back on track. as u two have been together for a long time now and maybe you re both got stuck into doing different things at home you need to start doing things together again.good luck i hope you get what you want.
2006-09-24 10:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by twinmum1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ditch him, then ditch him. It is as simple as that.
There are seven people living in my house. Me, my two daughters, the youngest one's boyfriend, and both daughter's 3 sons. EVERY ONE OF THEM is addicted to video games. I sometimes feel that I'm living in a house full of pod people, with me the only sane one left.
2006-09-24 10:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to give him some "buttons" to push and start shouting out points. Maybe start making those ba-ding-ding-ding sounds, and it would help if he could capture an island or something.
Seriously though.... drop the infant and get a real man.
2006-09-24 10:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋