I was shot down by this guy in Dallas,,, after giving my heart to him after 6 months of dating,,,,,,,,,,some good advice would be good to lean on,should I kick him or wait on him,he wants to be close to me and be around me ,,,,,,,,,,but not ready for a relationship,,,,,,,,,,Thanks,Texas Gal
2006-09-24 10:02:03 · 10 answers · asked by blueeyes9456 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't you DARE wait on him. He's keeping you on a string while he plays and explores "other options" (read other women).
You don't want to settle for being anyone's second best.
If he were the right one, the LAST thing that you'd be hearing is that he's 'not ready for a relationship'.
When a guy is the real deal, even if he's not perfectly 'ready', he'll darned well MAKE himself ready in order to be with you!
My husband taught me that, and seven years of blissful marriage and a baby later proves that he was soooo right.
So glad I didn't settle or wait on some loser and went on to the one that was meant for me.
You be smart and do the same!
2006-09-24 10:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by Peachy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really a personal thing that you have to decide for yourself. You have to ask yourself if he is worth the wait or worth it in general. Do you see a future with this person? Try to imagine your life with him and without him? Make sure he has the right motives. Relationships are hard...I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-24 10:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
F him... If he comes running after you then see how you feel.. cause him saying he want to be around you but not "with" you is stupid, and you shouldn't stand for it... if you just forget about him for a little while, he'll make you remember..
2006-09-24 10:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by kissed_by_a_nymph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him and run-he wants to be around you so no one else can have you-BUT he dosent want you for himself- he is young, has a foolish heart and you deserve a man who not only wants you but wants you for himself all the time- you can do better!
2006-09-24 10:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by coycoyote 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are billions of people in the world and half of them are men.
2006-09-24 10:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by a.kam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
run away!
and run fast!
someone else will want you for a long term thing and you will have to be available when that happens.
2006-09-24 10:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by tanlonghair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to have a talk with him ok and see if you knoiw if he have the same feelings or what and just tell him how you feel and just talk to him about it ok
2006-09-24 10:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by dodobirdsaf13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on.... you don't need that kind of guy in yourlife....
find you a guy who'll treat you the way you treat them and love you the way you love them....
2006-09-24 10:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out
2006-09-24 10:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell its on or get out.
2006-09-24 10:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by blackbutton100 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋