All the girls seem to go for the guys who don't care jack squat for them and just treat them like dirt, while us nice guys just stand on the sidelines...
Been single all my life lol and it doesn't seem like thats going to change anytime soon...
2006-09-24 09:59:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear this question all the time, and it really irritates the crap out of me! Instead of whining about it do something about it. I'm not saying go out and be a jerk. Perhaps you need to evaluate what kind of woman you are looking for. There's plenty of single women out there who believe that men only want model perfect women. This is not true just as it's not true that 'nice guys' always finish last. You need to make an effort...try online dating, get out and do things, extend yourself beyond your comfort zone. Don't reject someone right away based on looks alone. There is at least one person out there for everyone and if you spend too much time complaining nice guys finish last, she's going to pass you right by.
And besides, would you really want to be with a woman who has so little self respect as to let someone treat them like dirt???
2006-09-24 10:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um nice guys finish last cause they tend to be wimps. I know i've dated enough of them. They finish last because they dont agresivly go after what they want, in life or a relationship, unfotuantly guys who grew balls at thirteen have a tendancy to be dicks, but girls still dig the testostone over dose. So either grow a pair and become agressive. Or hit on the cute librarian and call it a day.
2006-09-24 10:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by jinxintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, why do nice girls end up with broken hearts? Do you believe that to be always true?
Of course not. Not all nice guys finish last; nor do nice girls end up with broken hearts. Everything takes two - it takes two people for a relationship to work; two people who are compatible with each other.
Take the advice from "Frank D". I really liked what he said in his answer to your question.
Never rush into anything until you're truly sure and comfortable. Take care and good luck to ya ;)
2006-09-24 10:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by ♫ Jemmy~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys don't finish last, they always come out on top...You are just focusing on the wrong type of girls...No matter what, never look down on yourself...As with me, I walk with my head held high, I know the type of guy I am and so should you..You are what you feel.....Keep our chin up, don't beat yurself up over this and look for a lady, not a girl...For ladies are the grown up versions, they know what they want.....Good luck
2006-09-24 10:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Frank D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girls are complex individuals, very complex, but they'll soon learn (hopefully) that there are some who are jerks and others who are not. You can't tell them this tho, some will continue on their down-ward spiral just to spite you (plus you'll come off controling). Don't worry about it too much - just have fun & be yourself, then they'll see you for who you truely are.
2006-09-24 10:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by crazybouthorses68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a nice guy and I finished first. I have a very beautiful girlfriend.
2006-09-24 10:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't they end up getting something better. Don't worry, lots of girls like nice guys.
2006-09-24 10:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're in all probability finding for the incorrect styles of girls. the types that would decide for undesirable men. And to boot, i do no longer think of severe high quality men end final, purely susceptible men. severe high quality men could be reliable too.
2016-10-17 21:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by templeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a nice guy i dont go for the jackass type
2006-09-24 10:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is true at all I think it all depends on the type of girls you are going after and your confidence level.
2006-09-24 10:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by suaveymcsuave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋