I'm not too sure how I feel about it... I mean girls have vibrators so guys have other hot chicks? I suppose girls and guys masturbation is completely different.. But does that mean if I wasn't pleasing him while we were having sex would he go into his mind of other girls and think about them? Hmm... I just was wondering what you all think?
P.S. I know I’m sexy and he likes to think about me/do me, I don’t have a crazy low self esteem.
2006-09-24 09:48:54 · 21 answers · asked by kissed_by_a_nymph 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have f*cking awsome sex, i don't even think he's watched them while being with me, i was watching one with him last night (one he's jacked off to before) and i was trying to figure out if i was comfortable with it. Thank you so much for all the great answers!
2006-09-24 10:04:50 · update #1
well dose he satisfy you sexually? If so then no, problem but if he is not keeping you happy in this department then there might be a problem !
2006-09-24 09:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Magica! Star 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most men have sexual fantasies. Porn is a way to live out those fantasies without being unfaithful. I love my wife and she does not understand me desire to watch porn. It excites me and to be honest I wouldn't want my wife to do some of the things I have watched. It's not unusual that your man watches porn. Perhaps if you watch one with him you may find the response to be quite positive. Maybe you'll see something you would like to try but haven't before. If you do suggest to him that you want to try that. He will love you even more for being supportive instead of judge mental. And remember that masturbation is normal for men and women. It's not that he doesn't get satisfied by you. And here's a little hint that will help if you want him to do it less but don't say I told you. :) There's a naughtiness about watching porn that's appealing to some men. If you suggest he watch as much as he wants or that it's OK to master bate while watching porn, the naughtiness will be replaced by a little guilt. Anyway ... I just want you to know that it's normal and most men enjoy it. I hope I have helped.
2006-09-24 17:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by johnsmith2965 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There has been a lot of talk about this recently.
You should worry if: He does this several times a week....he spends too much time on the computer with porn....he wants you to join in on sexual play that is uncomfortable to you...he doesn't come home when he is suppose to and when he does he has excuses such as "flat tire", "I was tired so I pulled over", "my cell phones batteries ran out"...
Porno movies can actually hurt a relationship...no matter what a man tells you, he doesn't "Need" to watch them. A man that is happy in his relationship won't need them so don't fall for it.
There is such a thing as sex-a-holics....and it's a very difficult disease to treat.
2006-09-24 16:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by TurntableKitty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me explain something you all ready know - men and women have different mind sets. Because he like to look at porno doesn't mean he doesn't care for you, it's just something men do. It's when they replace real romance and sexual relationships for porno and masturbation that it becomes sick and unhealthy. Even married men who love their wife's still at times find them self's masturbating and for that matter women also do.
So it's not unnatural or anything that you need worry about.
2006-09-24 16:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dale 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would totally watch porno with him and then re-create the scenes with him at home.I don't see anything wrong with porn every once in a while and I think you both can learn some pointers from them
2006-09-24 17:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Belanova 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get to upset about it. Whatever people say, it's just a release thing, getting ride of anxiety and stress. Girls have more emotion behind them when they have sex, guys just want to get rid of some stress when they masturbate. Don't think of it as cheating.
2006-09-24 16:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
50/50 chance he does think about other girls if he feels you just aren't doing it for him. Reality is always better than porn in my opinion. Maybe you should spice things up a notch (without lowering your standards of course because those movies are really degrading to women).
2006-09-24 16:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by suaveymcsuave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's natural for guys to masturbate as much as it is for girls to, no matter how much action/attention they're getting. I would only worry about him if he does it so much that it interferes with daily life, or if he chooses porn over you.
2006-09-24 16:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by bunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like sex - give him the best of porno movies by yourself.
2006-09-24 16:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a porno show yourself.He will probably enjoy an interactive one
2006-09-24 16:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋