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this is very personal please take it to heart when reading this im looking for some answers to help my realationship with my husband and myself my spouse is on some antidepression medication i believe the medicine is called biovail he has been taking this for about 3 months i have seen a differance in his behavior especially towards me and the children a lot of his words i find are abusive to me he has verbaly said things before to me in the past off and on but not as much i find he seems to be not as carring towards me he did always say i love you and sorry but now im hearing words like i dont care phrase we have been arguing alot this month has been very emotional for me i really need to talk to my husband i find when we talk it seems like we get into a battle again he can really egnore me when im upset and thats where i find i am weak and i feel as though he purposly does it to get me more upset he says its not true he goes to AA alot espesially if im upset at him..

2006-09-24 09:48:44 · 11 answers · asked by Person H 1 in Family & Relationships Family

..he does that alot i get upset is because i really want his attention he will say things like all i want to do is argue sometimes i do loose control and say things which i dont meen to i find he dosnt show loving action towards me i here the door closing loudly when he goes out and dosnt really say any thing just goes i feel like he doesnt care or playing games i find my desires stronger towards him need to be closer more attention from my spouse i have a hard time to show affection to him maybe because he has always been the starter in showing affection now i thinking that maybe he tries to control me im not sure these past few days i havent spent any closeness at all i really feel alone my need to be with him is overwelming i find he leaves so easily i cry alot for his love which i need to things are harder for me when i go through my monthly cycle i dont want to be egnord i know he is on medication i dont know how he behaves out to others i dont know to much about this drug .

2006-09-24 10:22:25 · update #1

11 answers

I would be going to the doctor with him and talking about the problems you are experiencing. Asking him if his meds could be changed. Unless you tell docs how he is reacting at home they wouldn't have a clue.
This kind of advice has to come from a doctor and not a forum like this.

2006-09-24 09:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 1 1

Unfortunately, we hear about these type of things all the time. Are you currently involved in a church. If so, you should seek guidance from you pastor. I know many of the antidepressants leave you feeling emotionless. I took some for a short period of time after my grandmother died and I had to stop because they left me feeling empty inside. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel?

2006-09-24 16:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by DontTell 2 · 0 0

If he was like this all the time I would say leave him because I don't think he would change........but........I was on antidepressant medication and it totally changed my attitude I lost some of my closest friends because of it. I thought I was going nuts but found out it was because of the meds I was on it took a bunch of different trials to find one I didn't have a bad reaction to. I suggest going to his doctor and asking to change meds if he gets off the ones he is on now by himself to quickly he will feel horrible. it needs to be done very slowly

2006-09-24 16:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by artfreak0124 2 · 1 0

that is freaking crazy, that sounds EXACTLY like my husband in every way, his meds and all. I really cant stand being around my hubby and i dont know what to do, i dont want a divorce because we have two small kids and i dont want a split family. But mine is also physical. Its like when he pisses me off, and i even say anything about being angry he "gets to that point" and its rediculous, but i hate him and cant wait till one day i can financially be ok enough to support my kids. So i dont really know what to tell you, if you can afford it GET THE HELL AWAY. and btw, those anger classes and **** suck for most guys. like my hubby was court ordered to go to anger managment and preventing abusive relationships, and he would come home and say "that was a joke tonight", Its really depressing. But im strong enough in side to know that he will pass and this is just a temp hell. So good luck girl, id say just divorce if you can, they DONT change. Im just fake as hell and act like he is my everything, but the day will come when he gets his, i belive god wont make me be around his *** forever. Even with our counseling he is just a freaking joke. Good luck, im here for ya if ya need me.

2006-09-24 20:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

biovail is the name of the pharmaceutical distributor in Canada. You need to know specifically what medication your husband is taking and whether he is taking the proper dosage. You can do a search on-line to see what the side effects of his medication are.

Antidepressants are a mind altering drug and you should contact his doctor as soon as possible to inform him of your husbands mood swings.

2006-09-24 17:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by rikenelson 3 · 2 0

Try your best to change this mode of your husband first. If you fail try to discuss him about your future of being together. if all failed you can ask for divorce, but if you feel you want him you have to try many things to change his mode.

2006-09-24 16:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by aahamed24 3 · 0 0

Seek family therapy.

2006-09-24 16:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 0

it sounds like he's dealing with depression.. maybe he should see a doctor about getting on paxil or prozac or something..

2006-09-24 16:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0 0

if i were you i wood take the kids and leave you desaver batter

2006-09-24 16:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

DIVORCE HIS ABUSIVE *** HE IS USING THIS AS AN EXCUSE

2006-09-24 16:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0 1

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