iwas told last week imight need a surgery,and yesterday the Dr. confirmed it,my man and iwere waiting to know,once iknew icalled him,instead he said im very sorry anyway i will talk to you later?? he isnt even busy! hes at home,doesnt it mean he doesnt care?what should i do??
2006-09-24 09:42:14 · 24 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a jerk.
2006-09-24 09:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care!
If your boyfriend loved you or at least cared for you then he would've stayed on the phone and supported you through this tough time.
All surgeries are scary to think about, they can, when done wrong, lead to death! I'm not trying to scare you but those are the types of things your man should be concerned about.
If he cared he would've stayed on the phone... you know that for yourself because he wasn't even busy. And whether or not he was busy, he still should've stuck by you in this tough time.
Drop him, you don't need him. He doesn't care about your well being and you don't need to be with such a worthless jerk.
2006-09-24 09:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen - your main concern is getting healthy. If your boyfriend doesn't care about your well being, then you are lucky because he is indicating very clearly either he is not interested in you or that he has some fear about surgery (the last one is a stretch at best). Get over him and find someone who cares about you.
2006-09-24 09:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Women are very emotional and men are not. Until we women understand this, we will always have arguments with our men. NOW, if he doesn't help you after the surgery or even come to see you in the hospital, he shouldn't remain your boyfriend because he doesn't care about you AT ALL!!!!
2006-09-24 09:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!, don't change it. It is normal. I think it's sexy. Come on now, if your bf cares about you, he will love your vagina. It really cool to have a long labia. It makes you different. It's how God made you. Tell him this is the reason why. If he cares about you, he will understand. BUT please always use protection. Even he has a condom. Make him wear one
2016-03-27 07:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him care, and if he doesn't care then it might be a big sign to you that perhaps it's time to move on to someone who really cares about you. Since you are going to have surgery you should surround yourself with people who love you and are there for you - don't be concerned with what he's thinking, if he isn't there for you on his own then it's not worth it to make him.
2006-09-24 09:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him about it? It may be that he's scared and fears the issue. If you cannot communicate together then your relationship isn't going to work out for the long haul anyway.
Get together with him and discuss it...find out if it's fear, or disinterest...we don't know your boyfriend so we cannot say for sure how he feels...you need to find that out, and then decide for yourself how you want to handle it from there...
2006-09-24 09:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth comes out, sweetie, when the chips are down. Take the high road and dump this uncaring asshole!
2006-09-24 09:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he could be upset & don't want to show you that he is worried about you or else just consider him as a self-absorbed person & dump him. It depends: is he a very thoughtful b/f usually?
2006-09-24 09:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's working out some woman out there....
if he loves you, he'll be there for you all the time and not just " i'm sorry, anyway i'll talk to you later" what kind of boyfriend is that..?
2006-09-24 09:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by nakitamaganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck to you...in the surgery...
and it is no time now to think about the relationship and the other person...it is time to think about yourself and only you...if not now when? if not for yourself --who will be for you! I just re. transposed the wording from a venerated patriarch...good words...follow them to the letter.
2006-09-24 09:45:52 · answer #11 · answered by s t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋