im 15 and my mom doesn't know that i've been dating for a while now, i have a boyfriend that i've been with for 2 years and my mom is still clueless, how can i tell her with out her going phsyco on me? she's a preachers wife so she thinks she knows everything!
2006-09-24 09:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and your boyfriend aren't going to end up together. Sorry if the truth hurts!
P.S. If either black or you were beautiful you wouldn't have to advertise the fact.
2006-09-24 17:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think you should be able to talk to your mom. Yes we do know all. We have been where you are now. All parents have rules for a reason. When did they say that you could start dating or having boys over at the house. I think it find if you have the boy over at the house where you can be supervised. Hiding thing and sneaking around usually end up hurting others. You parents are trusting you and you dont want them not to I am sure. Have a talk with your mom the same way you did on yahoo. If you have to write it down so you can have some valid points when she starts asking questions
2006-09-24 16:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in your situation before, but i told my mom. She didn't freak out like i thought she would. And now i feel i can talk to her about stuff. You just have to trust your mom to let you grow up. Now don't go and say hey mom i've been seeing this guy for two years and i've been hiding it behind your back... Just say "hey mom, i have this guy friend..." and tell her that he's really sweet and that you like him and maybe ask her some advice about your relationship... whether you make it up or not... that way she feels like your involving her in your life and not saying this is what's happening whether you like it or not... Mom's are very important and at 15 you may not believe it but they do sometimes have really good advice and are sometimes better to talk to about boyfriends then your best friend... just be careful what you say... i hope this helps some! good luck!
2006-09-24 16:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, can hardly believe that you have been dating for 2 years and mom does not know!!! You must have been lying to her!!! I can see that you are going down a very dangerous road, sweetie. I don't know what to tell you but to come clean and change what you have been doing. It would not surprise if you got pregnant and ruined your life.....that is what happens to girls like you!
2006-09-24 16:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you need to talk, and then when you're alone together tell her everything especially how you feel about your boyfriend, your mom's point of view, and explain that she can't keep you locked up forever. She has to let go sooner or later, and it needs to be sooner so she can face facts.
2006-09-24 16:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by purple_jj6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she must be clueless lol hmm i think ur best bet is to talk to her about it and see what she has to say and just let her know u were a lil scared to tell her....thats how my mom is..she is clueless that im in love with a guy that is really close to me...
good luck!
2006-09-24 16:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by cutie7191 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your mom; have a chat with her and let her know about your boyfriend. Remember to abide by HER rules about dating since you live under her roof.
2006-09-24 16:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well shes prob going to be more mad at the fact that youve been lying to her for 2 years. so id go ahead and get it over with before more time passes.
2006-09-24 16:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and make sure u don't tell her about u dating for two years cause that will get u grounded for two years. GOOD LUCK . I have the same problemz.!
2006-09-24 16:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmien D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down, and calmy tell her about him. tell her why you couldn't tell her 2 yrs. ago and hope she understands and doesn't go balistic...
2006-09-24 16:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋