My worst enemy Alexa is stealing my boyfriend!!
a week ago, he fought really bad with Alexa, but today they were togheter, talking about me(i think) because when they saw me he bassically ran away from me and she smashed a tomato into my face
yesterday, i had sex with him (he's been my boyfriend for 3 months) for the first time
2006-09-24 09:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by suzanna_banana 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-24 09:30:25 · update #1
what should i do???
2006-09-24 09:31:25 · update #2
i am 14 years:(((
2006-09-24 09:31:55 · update #3
do you think i should leave him?? he once cheated on me with my best friend......
2006-09-24 09:35:33 · update #4
do you think it's better that i do something with that alexa ***** rather then leave him???
2006-09-24 09:39:14 · update #5
please help me...this is a real problem....i don't know what to do....and i love him so much:(((((((((
2006-09-24 09:43:18 · update #6
No-one can steal anyone unless they want to be stolen. Your boyfriend is very cruel. And this Alexa is no better...they deserve each other. Neither of them have thought about how this is affecting you. Throwing a tomato in your face just shows how inconsiderate and nasty both these people are, her for doing it and him fpr allowing it. It was humiliating and totally unnessary. He is not worth your attentions. Its such a shame you had sex with him...I am sure you did it for all the right reasons....because you love him. He took advantage of you and your love. I am sure you had sex with him in an attempt to keep him. He was already gone, and sex wont keep a boy/man interested for very long.
I will tell you though, the best way to handle this is for you to take control of this situation. Show them you are a better person than both of them. Tell the boy YOU dont want him as your boyfriend anymore. Tell him you are interested in someone else and explain to him that you had sex with him as a faiwell gesture. A lot of times showing someone you are not interested can have the opposite effect. You call the shots, dont allow him the satisfaction of allowing him to see he is hurting you.
You are 14 and I know it seems like the end of the world. But I assure you there are far better people waiting for a lovely girl like you. You will find love again, probably a lot more times than just once or twice. The world is so full of opportunities, dont let this guy bring you down anymore. Take charge, be strong...you deserve a lot better than what you are getting.
2006-09-24 10:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well if he's your boyfriend and you thought enough of him to give him a part of you physically. He' s respecting you the same way you're respecting him right? Maybe you should take time out reevaluate this relationship baby. Don't allow any man to take your body and use it like it's nothing, your body is the most precious gift you have. Give it away a little more wisely next time cause this man is a jerk and so not worth your time.
2006-09-24 16:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by lilfunmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thing is there are some things worth fighting for.
these are few and far between. most of what's worthwhile will be hard to take away from you, if it's yours.
knowing there are probably better things to come means you don't have to stress about this particular thing.
though the soap writers of england would love to have your tale to worrk with , if you could look back on this a few years from now i'm sure that it will make you laugh.
hope that you don't end up killing each other these things can be fed till....
blumin to be a teenager again, who'd want it.
2006-09-25 07:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mose F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go cuckoo crazy. How to help you if you put yourself in very down position to respect in the future. I think the time is the best help and is going to solved if the boy is really for you.
Good lack.
2006-09-24 16:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take it out on alexa.... shes ended up with a stupid guy, and its his loss not yours! dont stress... the guy isnt worth you crying over or getting upset with other girls over, remember keep your head up, and forget about both of them, if you dont acknowledge them or get angry/upset, it will piss them off more..!
2006-09-24 16:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you did that to try to keep him then your probably gonna regret it and loose him later. and this doesn't sound like much of a friend or she wouldn't do that to you so kick her to the curb.
2006-09-24 16:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by ELIZABETH F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have lots of fish in the sea.
heard of that one.
at your age you will go through this
many many many times.
don't sweat it.
there will be others
2006-09-24 16:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by anne_9268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋