I wouldn't say you were a whore, because they do it for money. You are probably not easy either, since he was the first one. You were naive to do it so quickly and with a guy so much older. I doubt at three weeks it was love - it was hormones, plain and simple. Since he is still with you three months later, at least he wasn't using you and throwing you away. However, if you are feeling guilty about having sex and feeling bad about it after three months, then you should just not do it any more (he won't die without it, I promise). If he truly loved you, he would understand and wait until you were more comfortable or until you were married. Many women have "virginity regret" - especially if you grew up in a strict religious household. I don't know if you did or not, but that has haunted many a "good girl" into thinking (incorrectly) that she was a sl*t or a whore or easy (or all three). You need to accept what you've done, and if you are feeling bad about it, just make sure that you do not make the same choices until you are willing to feel okay about it. Good luck!
2006-09-24 09:36:43
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answered by Anonymous
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There is nothing to feel bad about. If you're feeling this way though, you should probably talk to him and tell him you wanna take a step back. Tell him that you still feel bad about having sex so soon and you don't want to do it again until your head is one straight.
The only one who can trully say whether is was wrong of you or not is you, and it seems that you think it was. Meaning, it was probably too soon for you to have sex either in general or just in this relationship. Take a break, take a step back, move slower now. If it's really love, he'll understand it. Maybe not pleased, but understanding.
2006-09-24 09:34:07
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answered by Suraya 3
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You are not a whore. He took advantage of you because you were much younger than he is. In Oregon, he would be in Jail. He should have waited until you were 18 when it would be legal and even then though it would be legal, ask yourself why he doesn't date women his own age. I can tell you why. They see through him. All he wants is an easy lay. Why isn't he married already or in a serious relationship. He went through 9 women. Why didn't he marry one of them if he was seriously looking for a wife. He's not. He's a playboy.
2006-09-24 18:58:50
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answered by Superstar 5
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Well a whore gets paid. Did you get paid?
It's your body and you can do what you want with it. It shouldn't matter whether he or anyone else says you should or shouldn't feel bad about something that you did with your body. It matters what you think and it's something you should have considered before you done it because you can't go back in time.
Hopefully you used protection. If not you should in the future.
2006-09-24 09:30:42
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answered by Not Laughing w/ U 3
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U r definitely not a whore because if u were u would have gave it up to him on the first night and plus whores get paid for what they do. So don't feel bad.
2006-09-24 09:37:08
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answered by Anonymous
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hell no dont beat your self up your not a whore now if you were doing every body on the block and thensome you might be a whore, but if he was you first and only that dont make you a whore. if you realy love him and you had sex for love it is perfectly fine. you became a woman with him. thats all
ONCE AGAIN YOU ARE NOT A WHORE!
2006-09-24 09:32:36
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answered by Tiffany B 2
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do not believe a whore. if it made you feel easy and like a whore you probley did the wrong thing. we as man will tell you any thing we think you want to here to get your pants off.. three weeks is not LOVE its SEX.
2006-09-24 09:33:26
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answered by dewstate 3
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I don't know if you should feel bad but. I mean 3weeks is kinda soon. How long have you know him?But iguess the fact that he stayed with you after and it's been 3 months means something. to tell the tru th i really don't know. just trying to help!
2006-09-24 09:31:41
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answered by lakimbria2000 2
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Don't feel bad at all if he's still with you than its all good, it was bound to happen one day just maybe a little sooner than you planned, and theres not a thing in the world wrong with that.
P.S. use protection, we don't need babies havin babies, later girl
2006-09-24 09:31:35
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answered by djdawn85 1
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No, you're not a whore. But don't sleep with him again until you feel the time is right for it. Talk to your boyfriend about this, and if he really cares about you, he will not pressure you into sleeping with him again.
2006-09-24 09:35:35
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answered by kittykins 6
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