help.advice please?

Question

i am in love with this guy.we had being going out for about 1 year.we broke up for 3 months and i having seen him.so we got back together.he took me to his house.we started kissing and he wanted me to have sex with him.and i said no and he started begging and i said yes and we had sex for 2 minutes. and he got mad at me beacuse i didn't give it up to him.i didn't wanna have sex cause i don't wanna get pregant right now and i don't trusth condom which is 68 percent effive. i call him at his house at the next day and he didn't pick up. when he pick up i said i was sorry about the whole thing and he was like is ok that i got a lot of time to make it to him.which i was thinking i hadn't got over.after that call he hadn't call me now for a week. right now iam thinking he got somebody else that he don't love him no more because of that.i love him too much.and i don't want him to leave him cause i would die.advice please

Answer 1

Fact from fiction, truth from diction, It was more of a hiatus. Because you too easily got almost back to the same routine. and in his mind, you should have been. Why girls always seem to believe they are so in love and so vested when it is quite apparent that the guy main interest is a steady booty call is beyond me. Have someone else? Maybe. If you are indeed split, then he is free to sex up whom ever he please, right? And if he has the need so bad he'd beg you for it. You think he is the type to wait? And why love someone who can not respect your choice not to? What is more important? Not losing him, or not having his baby by accident? If he is the world to you and all that, then get on your back for him. If not being a mother before you are ready then you have to let him go. Sometimes you may love something, but it is just not good for you. Like a diabetic wanting a chocolate moose real bad. But it will not do them any favors. Don't fear going it alone. The next guy will come and he will be forgotten.

Answer 2

Well, for one thing it is not your fault . he's just being a player.Its so good that you respect yourself.I know that its hard but it sounds like the best thing you could do is to try to get over him. Or least find out from reliable sources if he's going out, sleeping with, or anything he's not suppose to be doing with other girls. Than after that make your decision. You do not have to put yourself in the position to be cheated on. Your better than that. And it sounds like you could find someone else that will be better to you.It hurts for a while but if you do move on , I promise you will find someone better.

Answer 3

get a clue...if a guy ignores you because you didn't have sex with him....yea he doesn't love or even like you. I hope u r very young because you r a sad case if not. Wak up!!!! Be a strong woman......all the world needs is another abused woman because she let a dude walk all over her like you are......oh and ...ever heard of birth control pills!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

you should be proud of yourself for not giving it up. im 17 and i was stupid and gave it up. I still deal with it everyday..
But from the sound of your story it does seem like you need to try to move on, it may hurt [alot], but there is someone out there that will treat you better than that and someone who will not try to force you to do anything.
And you dont need to make anything up to him, he was an ****** for saying that to you. You should try to move on and not let him know that you care for him, if he knows you care for him he may try to use that to get you to do something you will regret in the future.

Answer 5

sweet heart, you NEED to leave him. he is messing you around and treating you like an object. he doesnt love you, thats obvious, there are much better men out there, one's that can treat you with the respect you deserve. drop the loser!!!