i have borderline personality disorder so i can never tell if my reasons for being mad are valid so im asking you guys
my boyfriend doesnt like to drink that often and i do. im always begging him to party with me but he rarely does. last night he went out and got completely sh!tfaced without me. he said he tried calling but i was asleep. im mad but i dont know if i have a right to be since he did try calling and i was sleeping. if it was me i would have gone out and gotten drunk without him. do i have the right to be this mad. i havent yelled at him yet i want to make sure im not over reacting before i start b!tching at him.
2006-09-24 09:10:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you shouldn't be mad, he did try to call and you were asleep, so obviously he tried, ask him to make sure to take you next time but you shouldn't pressue him into drinking
2006-09-24 09:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answer your own question.... He did tried calling you and you were asleep so do you think it was his fault for you to be sleeping?? And you said that you will gone out too and gotten drunk without him so why can't he go out too?? If you still want to be in this relationship plase just leave it at that
2006-09-24 16:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being self centered. He has a right to go out and have fun without you sometimes.
Get medication from your doctor and seek professional therapy.
2006-09-24 16:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when does he become the focus of attention? You are human too! You have feelings that need attention. Give and take give and take...ect
2006-09-24 16:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cos he did try to call you. if he hadnt than u should have been mad. ur just disapointed that he got drunk without u
2006-09-24 16:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldn't be mad . . he did try to call you . . . and besides, if it means that much to you . . buy your drinks and get sh!tfaced at home!!
2006-09-24 16:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't be mad at him for this. If it becomes a habit then you could be irate about it.
2006-09-24 16:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no need to yell at anyone just be glad he had fun and was wishing you were there with him
2006-09-24 16:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are and why do you want him to be a drinker like you??is he trying to make you a non- drinker like him ??
2006-09-24 16:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he tried to call, so its on you
2006-09-24 16:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋