The wives of Mohamud had openly talked of their sex life,Then why sex education and talking of sex is Taboo?

Question

The word -sex-is used 234times in Hadiths(Bukhare)and most of the Hadiths were mentioned by wives of Prophet especially Aysha,She had openly talked of menses,dream wets, bath after sex and even some juicy events,When these women (Mothers of Muslims )were not shy of talking about sex then why Now Muslims take it as a forbidden tree.

Answer 1

That is a really good question and believe or not the answer is quite simple.Sex education in islam is not a forbidden subject but many cultures have turned it into a taboo. Accually sex education is important because there are rules in islam about sex covering topics such as how to appropriatley clean yourself after sex and forbidden act like anal sex or having sex during menses.
With that in mind,it also important to realise that the sexual relationship between a women and her husband is private and sacred and it is forbidden for the husband and the wife to release such personal information.The only reason why the wives of the Prophet(PBUH) openly spoke of their sex lives is educational reasons so that we can learn what is ok and what is not.

Answer 2

Well , you may be right in most of your words .. But the point is wives of Prophet Mohammad (PUH) , were talking in these points from the principle founded by the prophet himself , which is (No shy in the religion science) but now adays most matters comes to be mixed , as generally boys and girls in the muslem world don't use these common sex-words in their daily conversation for example , sothat , came the forbidity of these words , cause it will be considered as an indication for seduction But , if just speaking about religion matters you will find it not that taboo even for the same guys ..

Answer 3

because arab culture doesn't make it seem right to talk about that stuff openly.......
secondly, its mentioned so much in the hadith so future muslims can learn what to do after events like that. the purpose of the hadith is to provide examples for future muslims after the prophet Muhammed died.
AND by the way, Aysha wasn't one of the worst wives. she is one of the most respects women in islam.

Answer 4

sex education is not forbidden in Islam it is culture that does not allow it not religion, it is important to be taught sex education and Islam acknowledges this.

Answer 5

What else would Aysha have to talk about? He took her when she was only nilne years old...not much chance for her to be educated in any other subject, was there?

Answer 6

because certain cultures and societies have made it taboo not Islam.

Answer 7

Out of all the wives of prophet Mohammad aisha was the worst of his wives....

Answer 8

What Sweet said.

Answer 9

Peace Be with u.
i know what u r talking abt, and i DO think that Muslim teens should be given sex-educations in schools, or any community center, but only by Muslim Adults (Muslims have different morals than the westerners). there should be NO shame in seeking such knowledge 'coz its a part of life, and our whole life is to be a part of Religion (Islam), so such knowledge implicitly becomes the part of our Religion (Islam). its better for teens to be aware of the consequences of sex, rather than for adults to live in a fantasy that teens be kept in the dark abt sex till they get married, 'coz believe me NO teen remains in the dark abt sex. it even seems that teens might be more informed abt sex than their parents nowadays, but still they DO NOT know the consequenses of sex, which are to be instill into the growing mind of teens. it should be the responsibility of parents and teachers and even respectable adults of the community to talk to teens openly abt sex, i know it gets to be uncomfortable, but still its a necessity, 'coz if trust-worthy ppl won't be open for this talk, then teens are going to fall into the wrong hands, and learn wrong things (like countless sites on porn-sites on internet, after all porn-industry are doing the most business on the net than 2nd 3rd ranked combined). it would be so much better if adults won't be so uptight abt this sex-ed to teens, 'coz it will encourage teens to bring up questions they are confused with to their elders, rather than asking those who themselves don't know, or fall in the wrong crowd.
So, in my opinion sex-ed or simply talking of sex, is NO Taboo.
if i recount well, Hazrat (Lady) Ayesha (May ALLAH Be Pleased with Her) said that :
"Blessed are the women of Medina who don't feel shame in seeking knowledge of Religion".
Even Prophet Mohammad (May Peace and Blessings of ALLAH Be Upon Him) didn't use to mind such questions, and even encouraged teen in this matter, 'coz if i recall well, there was an incident that :
Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) was coming to Mosque, and teens were talking amongst themselves (abt sex) on the steps, and as they saw Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him), they got quiet. Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) knew what was in their hearts, and He told them, those who have the resources, they should get married.
Even ALLAH HIMSELF told that "ALLAH does Not feel any shame in telling things that are", which implies that there is NO shame when seeking knowledge abt such things in Islam.
The Wives (May ALLAH Be Pleases With All of Them) of Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) be Blessed by ALLAH, as they openly talked of their sex life, 'coz through Them, we have come to know so many matters of marital life, which we couldn't have had figured on our own, and we would have thought of everything that we weren't told of as Taboo. Through Them, now we are comfortable with what is permissible and what is forbidden, and we could live a better life, as we can live a better marital life. Peace to All.
P.S. ... can u believe, that those who follow Christianity strictly, only do missionary style and all the rest of the things are considered taboo. whereas Muslims have only 2 Haram (Forbidden) Conditions :
1) Not to have anal sex with wives.
2) Not to have sex in mestruation periods of wives.
and i guess oral sex as well, is not clearly prohibited, but strongly discouraged, but other than that everything is Good. So, be Creative, and Be Happy.

P.P.S. ... All the quotations given above are out of my memory alone, but they are correct as the theme of quotation is concerned, as i recall. i can't give any references to those quotations, and events, 'coz i myself don't know (as i just read it, and didn't memorize the references with it). but, those who have read The Holy Quran and The Sahih Hadiths would be more aware of the references, and what i m refering to, but if i m wrong in any way, then plz do contact me to correct me or even to give me the actual references. thanx to all.

P.P.P.S ... Also, Hazrat Ayesha (May ALLAH Be Pleased With Her) was the Most Beloved Wife of Prophet Mohammad (May Peace and Blessings of ALLAH Be Upon Him), and She Loved Him with All Her Heart too, and was One of The Best Wives of Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him), and She is a Mother to All Muslims, so there should be NO disrespect for her. and who does any sort of such disrespect (GOD Forbid), it shows that he/she disrespect his/her own Mother the same way, and they should be Ashamed of Themselves.

Answer 10

I think this is really sick.