since my bf and i started messing around the sexual tension keeps building and i kinda want to go all the way but am worried that it will mess things up between us.
2006-09-24 08:57:10 · 11 answers · asked by ELIZABETH F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i agree with u that it will mess it up but if ur boy freind insists for sex then either u do it or leave him well sex will either be good for u or simply worst which is nat good so make it clear with him and do what he say . first say no to sex if he loves u then he will nat feel bad about it . just by saying no it will be clear whether it will be complicated or nat? try it and there are a lot of guys out there to explore without sex becaz sex is indeed complex
2006-09-24 09:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by pure gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex messes things up. it either gets better or a lot worse. things wont be how they are now and that's just the way it is. after you have sex you have to worry about him wanting to do it all the time.. and maybe you wont. or maybe you wont like it at first and wont want to do it anymore and he'll be offended.. there's all sorts of possibilities.. there's a lot of commitment involved in a sexual relationship.. make sure you're ready for that
2006-09-24 16:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 18? Turning 18 the next couple of days? Live on your own? Have a job? Have your own place of living (apartment, home, condo, renting, or buying)?
Relationships are not complicated. It's what you put in it that you'll receive in return. Sex is for married couples who love one another. If he doesn't want to be with you because you're not giving it up. You need to give him up. If someone loves you, he will wait. Tell him to m--------.
2006-09-24 16:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Hilpar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold back..wait until you are totally 100% ready to do it. you may be feeling lust right now, but you need to be strong and wait until you two have built a strong emotional relationship. most people wait until 6 months to a year before having sex. that is a good time to know you guys have put a lot more than lust into the relationship. :-)
2006-09-24 16:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're ready to go all the way, then go all the away and use protection. . . .If you're not ready, then don't do anything . . . If things get messed up, then it wasn't meant to be . . .
2006-09-24 16:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by techgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been together a while? Like more than 5 months or so, if yes go for it your/his body can only take so much of it. He wont think any different, unless he leaves you but that shouldn't happen.....right??
2006-09-24 16:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use protection (both of you) and just say like "no strings attached" because then it can't mess things up
2006-09-24 15:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Erica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because life is complicated.
2006-09-24 15:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the natural progression of the relationship, if you dont give it up eventually he will move on
2006-09-24 15:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it and get it over with. You will be happy you did
2006-09-24 15:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋