I met this boy at a party and it seemed like he wanted to get my number but he didnt ask. Fate had it we bumped into each other the next day in the street! and he asked me out for a coffee. we spent about 5 hours together, walking and talking by the river. We swapped numbers and a few weeks went past and a few texts but not many. he was on holiday and busy working but then he texted me and asked me out for coffee or drinks. I said yes depending on the day and we booked a day next week. he hasnt given me a time or place yet but we do have a firm day ! Is it a date or is he thinking just friends how do you tell?
Also what do i wear, he is a pretty casual jeans kind of guy - I also have no idea where we are going but assume its casual so is a miniskirt / knee high boots OTT --- girl next door or hot !
2006-09-24 08:55:32 · 8 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As i answered in part 1 i think this is a date. You need to find out where you are going as this will determine what you wear.
My partners a causal guy but i always get dressed up as thats what i like, but there is different degrees of getting dressed up.
I dont think there is anything wrong with wearing a mini skirt and boots but why not combine this with a nice blouse. One thats smart and fitted, that way you''ll be able to be smart and hot but not feel out of place if you go somewhere a bit causual. You can always wear a nice bra and undo a couple of buttons on the blouse this way its sexy but keeps him guessing.
I say combine the two.
2006-09-24 09:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by CHIMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say given the combination of events, it sounds like a date to me, especially if you spent 5 hours together! I'd definately be prepared for a date if I were you.
As far as what to wear, no reason not to look hot, after all, even if he isn't considering it a date yet, he should be by the end of the evening!
2006-09-24 16:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear what you usually wear. Also, we'd need more info to know if you were dating or not, for example, have you:
talked about your lives
call each other alot
said the word "love" and in what context
hugged
kissed
but, pretty much, if your about to go on a third "date" and it's something "more" than coffee, its a date
2006-09-24 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will find out if it is a date by how things go on the day. Or you could just ask him. As for what to wear..that would depend upon whether you want to impress him or just see it as two friends meeting...
2006-09-24 15:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by BenignSource 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many guys wanna hang out with a girl just to be friends. I bet he wants more than friendship... but the fact that he isn't more concrete about seeing you makes me think he might not totally be that into it.
2006-09-24 16:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Eho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something that make syou feel good and comfortable. That way you don't have to worry about your clothes. Be yourself - it is hard work to try and pretend to be someone else in the long run!
2006-09-24 15:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by interested_party 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say a date..Dont dress up, but dont go looking like a slob either
2006-09-24 16:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by I Hate Liberals 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as "just friends" for the time being, because if you think your dating & he just wants friendship, you won't see his **** for dust.
2006-09-24 16:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by David D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋