theres a guy i like ALOT. We hang out and stuff but im afriad he MIGHT be turning abusive. Whenever i " mouth off" to him he hits me across the face & tells me to shut the F*** up Before he hits me harder. & the other day i accidentely hit his leg when i was moving mine, so he grabbed onto my leg n started punching it as hard as he could & now i have 6 bruises all up and down my leg. He also twisted my arm around n did sumthin to my wrist cuz now i have bruises on my wrist n i think itso ut of place. He does this in a somewhat" jokenly" manner. He's never made me bleed er ne thing. Is he starting to turn into an abusive guy? or am i exxatruaing?
2006-09-24 08:53:27 · 25 answers · asked by chels 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also said that if i did sumthin stupid again he'd hurt me until i cried...
2006-09-24 08:54:34 · update #1
Im 17 and hes almost 16
2006-09-24 09:00:56 · update #2
Duh! He's already abusing you! Don't let ANY mother fuc*er put his or hands on you in a violent manner! Next time he hits you, pull out a big as* can of hairspray and a cigarette lighter. Press the button on the hair spray and flic your bic right in the stream......it will give you a mini flame thrower so you can set the bastard on fire and watch him run!
2006-09-24 09:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now. You should not even have to ask this question. It is not right for anyone to hit another. This does not sound like starting and this is no joking matter. He should be in jail right now for what he has done to you. Get out before he kills you. Or you have children and he hurts them. Do not talk to him, answer e-mail, phone call.....You should take photos of the bruises make a police report and get a PPO out on him.
2006-09-24 08:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by Didi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
joking does not leave bruises. I'm really strong, and I don't even leave bruises. Get away from this guy now before he starts drawing blood. In fact, bring it up to some friends you trust first. His last remark about making you cry really worries me.
2006-09-24 09:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by DarkStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are and I hope you are not a teenager or younger, but get the hell away from him pronto. He is a SOB and you don't need to be around him. No man should treat a woman that way. He is a bully and coward. Get him out of your life. You don't deserve to be treated that way.
2006-09-24 08:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not exacturaating i have personal experience with abusive relationships anf this is classic text book woman beater. YOU HAVE TO KNOW YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT YOU DO NOT DESERVE ANY OF THE **** HE DOES DO YOU AND IT NEVER YOUR FAULT ! if you love him and decide to stay that is your choice but i would recomend that you leave him there is someone better and who will never put his hands on you out there waiting for you go find them!
2006-09-24 09:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with some of the ppl that answered ur question.... 1) call the cops
2) tell ur parents or a guardian friend
2006-09-24 09:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....Abusive or not? Did you ever hear the saying "Love shouldn't HURT". I mean that physically, not emotionally.
I have a daughter and it scares me to think that she would ever allow a guy in her life whether they are dating or not. To think it's okay, to be physically abused
If your asking this question is because you know deep down that he is.
2006-09-24 09:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turning abusive? Girl, he IS abusive. Leave him right away. You deserve someone a LOT better than him. Have more self-respect.
2006-09-24 08:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABUSIVE GUY!! get out of the relationship!!! and call the police, but don't tell him, and get a restraining order too! it's not right! I wish you the best of luck dear
2006-09-24 08:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by Erica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is very, very abusive. A man/boy/male should never, never, ever hit a female regardless of the circumstances. You're in for trouble, get rid of him. Please, please find someone else.
This will eventually turn into more abusiveness. He should learn to walk away, call for help, or manage his anger.
2006-09-24 08:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Hilpar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋