My finacee recently (within the last two months) started a new job, and ever since then all he does is work all the time. I have a three year old that misses him as much as I do. What should I do, stay with him or move on to someone else?
2006-09-24 08:53:24 · 5 answers · asked by comegetchasomebtch1988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait...is the 3 year old *his*?!
If it is, then you should seriously consider 'staying with him', if the issue is merely that he's busy with a new job and y'all miss him!
Would you really consider 'moving on' to someone else just because he's very busy, when presumably as his fiancee you've committed to *marrying* him?
Or are you concerned that this new work ethic represents a longterm change that you cannot accept?
I'd imagine it would be wise to find from him whether this work work work mode is going to be longterm, first of all.
I suppose you two might have very different visions for a homelife, and that might make a marriage too difficult to consider, but you can't know that til you make it clear that this is an issue and see how he responds, letting him make his goals needs and objectives clear as well.
good luck!
2006-09-24 09:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest talking it over with him..perhaps it is just temporary until he gets settled in his job. You need to think about your priorities, is he providing for you and your child?
Perhaps he is driven to support you and does not realize you need more personal time, on the other hand he could be a complete workaholic and is unable to give you the attention you need, in that case perhaps you should move on.
But first talk it over with the guy and see waht his goals are you can't knock the guy from trying if he is trying to be the bread winner....
I know plenty of gals who would trade places with you because all their man does is lay around the house all day and wont even look for a job.
2006-09-24 09:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a new Job perhaps it is just a very busy time. Let him know that he need to make more time for you and your son
2006-09-24 08:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these days when your first starting out, he has got to prove himself at work or else they may not keep him around.
does he provide for you.
is he stepping out with someone else.
give him a break, its tough when your the new guy, and everyone
is sizing you up at work
2006-09-24 09:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him directly how you're feeling?
2006-09-24 08:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋