How can I flirt with girls?

Question

In case you haven't seen my other question, I am in high school and was, for a long time, heartbroken over being dumped by my first girlfriend. Since that time, I have realized that I have to move on, but how can I feel comfortable with other girls? Generally they seem to show no interest in me (and no I do not say anything very crude or offensive to them, and I don't touch them at all in an uncomforable way (in fact, I wish I could touch them at all)). In addition to losing my confidence enough, I've also developed a fairly noticeable acne problem since she broke up with me (though I have seen worse). My question is; how can I be comfortable enough with girls to flirt with them, and once I am, how do I do so?

Thanks in advance.

Answer 1

Okay, I am very shy with guys so I will tell you how to get over ur fear of the opposite sex. Stop just seeing us as girls. We are people just like guys. Get to the point where you can talk to a girl as a fellow student and then as a friend. When you get more comfortable with her and you understand her likes and dislikes, give subtle hints to your interest in her as more than just a friend. It may take some time, but you have been spending much of your time stewing over your ex. Just invest you time now into yourself and you will be fine. Also, your acne may come from stress. Or maybe you drink and eat too much sugar. Moderate your intake of soda and snacks. Plus a good astingent and cleanser will help. Whew...long message. Hope that my typist cramp is not in vain and this info helps :)

Answer 2

well you seem really sweet and if your looks match your personality then i should see no problem in why you cant flirt with girls.... im also in high scl and i dont want to sound concited but im fairly good looking and i have problems flirting with guys ..... guys flirt with me but i dont know what to do when the flirt with me..... basically to flirt with a girl most guys play around with them and tease them like tap them or try to touch them[not sexually] like just let them know ur there basically this is it....

HOW GUYS FLIRT

1. He stares at you alot.
2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "Brown Sugar" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go and didn't want to go alone.
6. He tries to make you laugh anyway even if he gets hurt in the process
7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You where invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you laugh even harder...
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, ect.)

try some of those things


since i helped you out maybe you could help me out with some of my questions

Answer 3

I am a girl and flirting is not what you want to do. It's really hard, but it works! Tell them how you feel.

This worked so well I got my first kiss yesterday.

Answer 4

Find things to build up your self esteem!!! But always smile and compliment them-- girls love it!!

Answer 5

OK. you have to be mysterious. that's how guys act half of their time around girls. it make us want to know more about you. that's how life is. well take my advice and lets see how it goes. oh.... and guys do no flirt, they act mysterious

Answer 6

Show them ur d'ck, they'll get on their knees adn start sucking it. Otherwise, smile, be friendly, compliment them like "hmm, ur looking nice today" not "ur are so beautiful"......they'll like it.

Answer 7

just start talking and be yourself. and do not lie. you can not keep lies straight.

Answer 8

be yourself