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Can a birth mother give up parental rights and change her mind later? I think I've heard of cases where this happens.

I would like to look into adoption someday but this thought scares me.

2006-09-24 08:39:15 · 12 answers · asked by MissLady 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

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I think the mother has 6 months to decide. She can change her mind within 6 months. After that the parental rights are diminished. You would have to talk to a lawyer if you truly want to consider something like that. There is a thing also called open adoption where the parents could get pictures, information, education results. Which this is a little different too.

2006-09-24 08:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0 0

I hope i can with this answer, because i myself was adopted. Usuually, in most states, the birth mother has up to 30 days to change her mind after adoption. However, if the parental rights of the birth mother were terminated, and not volunatilry given up, then she cant change her mind later. For example, if social services terminated her parental rights, then she doesnt get to decide if she wants the child back or not.

There is some good news though. If you do adopt a child, and the mother changes her mind before her time is up, then that doesnt nessesarily mean that the child goes back to the birth mother. A court date will be set. Factors such as who can provide more, who has been there the most, etc will be taken into factor. Very rarely, a birth mother gets the child back because she changes her mind after the adoption. But, if you do adopt, get a lawyer at least until her time of mind changing is up.

2006-09-24 09:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by cute_blondie_angel 6 · 0 0

The birth mother has 24 hours after the baby is born to change her mind. It Takes about 1 year in the state of WA to process the papers for adoption so in that time the mother can change her mind. But after the papers have been filed then she is unable to reclaim the child. First the bio father has to sign his rights away also, if the father does not claim the child with in 6 month is consider child abandonment and the father has no rights.

2006-09-24 08:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0 0

A birth mother I believe has only 6 months in which to change her mind. After that the adoption is considered binding. A father, if he is not told about the child and did not sign the adoption papers can take the adoptive parents to court, and the courts will usually side with the bio parents on this issue. This is why it is important to make sure if you do adopt that the father signs the papers also.

2006-09-24 08:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0 0

sure they can change their mind but that doesn't mean they'll get the child back. if the adoption has gone through and its' done and over and the mother has given up all rights then there is nothing they can do about it...

although if the birth father doesn't sign over the child then he may come and claim custody, so if you do decide to adopt then make sure that both parents give up full custody...

consider adopting an older kid. there are some kids as young as 2 who need parents...

if you happen to find a 2 year old Who's parents died.. as sad as it may sound that would be your best bet in making sure they don't try and take the child back from you...

usually it doenst happen though. it's very very rare, so don't worry. adoption is a good thing. be proud of your decision!!

2006-09-24 08:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by JD 3 · 0 0

They do have a window of opportunity I think most states its 6 to 9months. My aunt and uncle adopted a baby and they thought the birthmother would chance her mind but luckily she didn’t.

It is a risk any adopted parent has to take. When you find an adoption agency you can ask what the % rate is for the mother to change their mind, my guess is it’s a very low number. You could even look into overseas adoption they may have diffrent laws.

2006-09-24 11:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0 0

It varies by state. IN california the mother has six months, in Texas the mother's rights are gone once the papers are filed at the courthouse. You really need to check into your own state. If it's something you are afraid of, check into foster care adoption where the parental rights are already terminated.

2006-09-24 15:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Rose C 2 · 0 0

Ok, I know I am telling you about a Lifetime Network movie, but alot of those movies are based on true story. This couple adopted the baby girl of a young woman. About 4-5 months later, she changed her mind. Well long story short, she got the baby back.

These types of situations would make me leary of adoption.

2006-09-24 11:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0 0

It depends on the situation from state to state. On average I believe a birth mother can changer her mind with the first 6 months.

2006-09-24 09:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0 0

regrettably if his criminal rights have not been terminated and he contests the adoption he will in all probability win. Biology rules. because your rights have already been terminated you will no longer get custody back immediately. you will could combat him for custody and you won't get it, because your parental rights are long gone. I lied approximately my daughter's father too. He replaced into in reformatory for beating up his female chum and her daughter. His rights have been terminated in the appropriate way so I even have been recommended by using the decide that he won't in any respect be waiting to contest the adoption. i could think of if he had come lower back earlier the rights have been terminated (it took seventy 5 days after she replaced into born) then he could are transforming into custody. sure there is a few thing to be mentioned for "the only homestead the toddler has ever usual" yet that doesn't advise the adoptive mothers and dads will win custody. And, to no longer decide them, yet i do no longer know how they might keep the toddler remote from it rather is father who needs it. i could no longer determine a toddler understanding that their adoption replaced right into a shady deal and that one determine replaced into duped into dropping custody whilst they needed it. i do no longer unavoidably blame you for what you have executed, i could merely choose to throw that accessible. Adoption is a loving and selfless concern to do and that i'm useful you have been in survival mode and thinking of the suitable pursuits of your toddler. regrettably the court docket will could decide for that.

2016-12-12 14:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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