i have this friend that i`ve known for about 2 years.. when i first saw him in my class in freshman year i already liked him then but he seemed like a quiet kind of guy. so later on his asked for my number cause me and his friends are all going on a trip together so he started calling me everyday and we talked for hours everynight. but not long ago he got a girlfriend. but then he never told anyone about it except for me and his girlfriend lives about 400 miles away.. but all my friends thinks that we go out. so i told them about my friend`s girlfriend but they didn`t believe it. they said that it could be a fake. the only thing that`s weird is that he still walks me to class and he would wait for me in front of my classes everyday and he still calls me everyday and he would ask me to go over to his house like every weekend . so i really don`t know what to think of him. what should i do?
2006-09-24 08:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesnt sound like he has a girlfriend to me. some guys are just weird like that. their reasoning for what they do sometimes is just plain off the wall. but he must have some reason for what hes doing. dont worry about what will happen with him. if youre meant to be together, then you will someday. but be patient. and dont close out other guys while youre waiting for this one. he may be into playing head games with you and if you do get together later on, thats not a good thing. good luck either way!
2006-09-24 08:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by needlefire05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to havea dinner for three ,,u him and the girl. If he resists u will be able to see taht his girl is fake..may be he wants to know whether u really like him by introducing a fake person and see if ur jealous. He might be unsure himself of deserving u in the first place. Quiet ppl are introverts and since intrivorts will go limits to hetto know whatpeople think about themand feel about them to be sure taht they really are liked by someone...Im guessing this is the case. Give him another chance even if hes faking.
He might really like u too much :)
2006-09-24 15:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can other be around him more and see if he acatual call a girl that far away or you can just look in his eyes and ask him if he does have a girlfirend hope that helps
2006-09-24 15:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by SuperSonic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are wonderful and think the are wise i belive he has something up him so dont worry just be your realself,he is just after knowing you( in and out) and comparing with his girlfriend if truly is his girlfriend he just want you to feel his importantant and present that why he calls you in the night
2006-09-24 16:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Adanna N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure about his girlfriend? Have you seen her? He might have made that up so that he won't seem desperate. Talk to him ask him what he wants.
2006-09-24 15:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Well, you guys seem like you're really really close for "just friends". My advice to you is, if you still like him, talk to him about it. And try finding out how he really feels about you.
2006-09-24 15:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a unclear relation , try to understand your feelings towards him and his feeling towards you even if you have to discuss this frankly with him. Find where you stand and preserve your reputation and dignity among your schoolmates.
2006-09-24 15:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiff, obviously he wants to keep you close and dose not want to ruin ur relationship as friends. He is probably doing it for a good reason(for himself). Stay close and don't dictate his reasons. good luck . sincerly jessica
2006-09-24 15:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an idea.....
ASK HIM......ask him to be completely honest with you, and if you 2 are as good friends as you say you are then he should tell you the truth
2006-09-24 15:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋