Ok my friend messed up big time with his girl and i dont know what to tell him. He cheated on his gf with his ex and now his ex is pregnant and his gf knew he cheated and stuff but she thought he wore a condom. But last night she found out he didnt and now she wont talk to him cuz she found out they had planned on having a kid together while he was with his gf. I told him he messed up big time and that he should leave her alone but he says he loves her and wont give up without a fight. So what should I tell him? How can I help him out of this mess?
2006-09-24 07:46:52 · 14 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's already quite evident what a "sorry" *** he is, so there, not much for you to do there. Tell him to step up and be a man -- he got himself into this, now's the time to be there for the girl he got pregnant (oh yeah, and the child HE and SHE made).
2006-09-24 07:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ziva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would tell him that he screwed up and now he gets to pay the price. He obviously didn't love his gf enough to pass on the chance to take his ex to bed so now if his gf has any brains or pride she will tell him to take a hike and forget him. After all, he obviously isn't to be trusted so why would she set herself up for another slap? Actually, he has a lot more important things to look after than trying to figure out how to keep bedding his current gf. He is going to have a kid to help look after and support so hopefully he is man enough to at leaast not make the kid pay for his stupidity as well.
2006-09-24 08:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by nidan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at first, if he cheated on you and have been given yet another woman pregnant, your dating of course isn't a "sturdy" as you think of. the undeniable fact that he become having intercourse with somebody else isn't sturdy in any respect, yet he become having UNprotected intercourse is even worse. who's to declare that's the 1st time? He might have been cheating on you for it sluggish now. you may bypass to the wellness care professional first and maximum familiar and get examined for STDs (whether you're actually not showing indications, some STDs could be silent and not tutor indications in any respect. a lot of them might reason infertility if left untreated. Secondly, i'm a company believer in "as quickly as a cheater, consistently a cheater." i think of that could be a character flaw in some men. And remember--for him, the 1st time is often the toughest. If *I* have been you, i might wreck up with him. in case you have been married and had a family participants of your very own (or whether you probably did no longer) that is one element, yet he's purely a boyfriend. Do your self a want and lose him and circulate on consisting of your life. I actual won't be able to think of desirous to be with somebody who might cheat on me. ask your self this: What does he do for you that somebody else could no longer?
2016-10-17 21:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't- cheating is SOOOO hard to forgive. When someone cheats you automatically want to leave. You try to convince yourself to stay with the person ( sometimes) but one little thing that happens normally sets you off and you will leave. Having a kid with someone else is a HUGE thing. That is something that she would have to deal with FOREVER, I don't think its forgiveable. Its not something you can forget or let go of. Thats they hardest part.
2006-09-24 07:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pixie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he needs to realize he f u c k e d up big time and there is no way in hell his girl is gonna ever take his sorry a s s back. he should have thought about this before he f u c k e d his ex and got her pregnant...on purpose! what a dumb a s s! you ought to be careful who you associate yourself with-you're only as good as the company you keep.
2006-09-24 07:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't, i am sorry to say but your friend is an idiot, if he really loved her he wouldn't have cheated on her. And i he messed up by cheating on her and having sex with his ex is one giant mistake and two, he just added on to it by not wearing a condom, and planned to have a child with his ex when he could have done it with his actuall girlfriend, you better stay out of it cause your friend is screwed, if his girlfeind gets back with him, he is lucky and she is stupid.
2006-09-24 07:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He should let her be, and give her some space. IF she loves him and thinks she can ever forgive him, she will come back, and if she don't love him or can't forgive him, then she won't. He should have thought about how much he loved her before he cheated. I know it happens all the time, but it usually sucks for everyone involved.
2006-09-24 07:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by ~hopeless love~ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
your friend needs to leave her (his current gf) alone!!! she is smart for not wanting anything to do with him!!! he's a cheat and sounds like he needs to grow up and get a good paying job to take care of his upcoming child support payments!!!
2006-09-24 07:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this, but your friend doesn't deserve her. period. and what makes him think she'll be willing to get back with him after all he did to her? heck, no girl would do that. it's his own fault, now he's gotta suffer the consequences. he should have thought about how much he loved his girlfriend when he was having sex with his ex.
2006-09-24 07:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
What a mess.
2006-09-24 07:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋