Since the God-haters think we are born this way, I'd like them to see that we are not, it's a choice that becomes an addiction that becomes a disease on the soul.
2006-09-24 07:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It doesn't take a therapist to change you, it takes a God to deliver you from it. The one true God of the bible.
2006-09-24 07:40:49 · update #1
zero cool..God does change us...but he gave US free will..so we have to CHOOSE to let him change us
and the gay lifestyle is something that you can be delivered from.
2006-09-24 07:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Brother J 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Maybe you just have that disease.
You need to read about addictive personality disorders.
Not everyone has an addictive need.
It just means you're horney and can't score with girls, otherwise IT IS PREDESTINED and YOU ARE the way you are!
I find it totally alien not to be interested in what a girl is packing inside of her bra.
I find it a much better concept to go into her front side than some guys backside. Safer too. No natural bacteria to cause infections.
Same thing with oral. One cold sore and you're out of commissiona and at the doctor's for a month on creams and anti-biotics.
Sounds to me like your a religious nut who is praticing inflamatory statements to be anti gay or you have a serious addiction problem and it has not gone away.
Religious nut who do these things are doing Christianity and religoin no good. Although thse people are often atheists and merry pranksters.
2006-09-24 15:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Kiddo, I know all about reparative therapy and how it works. I know that it isn't tested for long term results and that it often "helps" people REPRESS and SELF LOATH, not truly change. Of course I'm sure you'll consider me a "god-hater" regardless of my atheism (which means I can't and don't hate something that I don't consider to be real)... but what do you think of the APA? After all, they're the relevant authorities on the matter... do you know what they say about reparative therapy? Or do you think they're all anti-God too?
As for "God" changing folks... I thought the general concensus was that "God" can't interfere with anyone. Even if people beg and plead, "God" can't reach in and take "the gay" away. Free will kind of binds "God's" hands, yes? And even if "God" COULD, homosexuality is nothing to be "delivered" from. It's not an addiction, an illness, a disorder or a perversion. You can tell yourself it is until you're blue in the face, but ALL of the people who are actually QUALIFIED to assess mental health will say otherwise... and they have education and knowledge to back them up, not mythology and a very old, highly edited storybook.
2006-09-24 14:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
When you will you people learn that homosexuality is not a choice? People aren't born gay either. It all develops during adolescence when a kid is trying to work out what his/her sexual identity is. They don't say "Y'know what, I think I'm gonna be gay." And Zero Cool is right about the reparative therapy. That just screws people up.
2006-09-24 14:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I used to be friends with a Christian and formerly gay man, and trust me, he was still as gay as they come. He was frustrated, married to an older woman, and was generally unhappy with himself. He felt that he was "evil" for having feelings for the same sex, and he sort of hated himself that, despite his strong belief in God, he wasn't able to stop those feelings. Trying to change people from what they are biologically hardwired to be will only result in pain. Take a look at what happens when sexually ambiguous children are raised as a female when their chromosomes say male! They turn out very confused, and the same thing happens when you take a person that is genetically meant to be one way and you force them to be a different way.
Hope this helps!
2006-09-24 14:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by rita_alabama 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Happily I was delivered from the perverted kind of religious belief you're pushing. When I read things like your "question", I am very thankful to have overcome the disease you're still suffering from.
Later:
I got your message. You said that you were delivered from it six years ago, and that I should have checked your profile, but your profile clearly says that you're still in that perverted right-wing religion. Did you forget to update it?
2006-09-24 14:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
if any "christian"has been "cured" from homosexuality,well that's what they want you to believe because they have been brainwashed to believe that are truly cured when they very well still have homosexual urges and fantasies,you cannot cure being gay,no god or religion is capable of that,its like telling a chocolate lover,don't eat chocolate,its not possible.gay men or women who claim to be cured are only living under the charade to please family or friends,or to be true to their "religion".which in turn is lying to yourself,which is a form of personal hell.
homosexuality is not a choice
you can only understand being gay if you are gay
homosexuality is not a drug,therefore it cannot be an addiction.
it is not a mental illness.
it is definitely not a disease,and if you claim to be gay and then be cured,then you are lying to yourself.
2006-09-24 14:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by jen 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Because people need to be "delivered" from homosexuality.
Don't be a cock. People have the right to be whatever they want to.
2006-09-24 14:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by fiveshiftone 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Delivered from? You mean fed a gult trip until they've repressed it, don't you?
2006-09-24 14:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by nondescript 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I have five friends and acquantances who have been. One young man and fiance are starting a ministry in our area to help others be delivered from this.
2006-09-24 14:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 2⤊ 6⤋