Can anybody enlighten me about what kind of scenarios I can expect?
2006-09-24 07:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
sorry...domination/submission
2006-09-24 07:33:12 · update #1
it depends on your man's interests and level of creativity. ..and your interests. People who are into D/s will talk about what they're willing to do/not do. You can find checklists on line you can discuss with him regarding what you're willing to do. Do an internet search for BDSM, you'll find these checklists and lots more...
There's bondage, mind games, deprivation, lots of cool equipment and tons of options. It'll only be fun if you're into it though, so TALK first and make sure your boyfriend doesn't try anything beyond his skill level. Someone mentioned "safe word" Make sure you have one so you can stop your boyfriend if he goes beyond your limits. You have to trust him implicitly.
It's not abnormal or sick like some here imply. If it's fun for you, then go for it!
2006-09-24 12:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by dawn3g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with trying this - but make sure you know your boyfriend really well so that he knows not to take it too far. Talk about it a lot before doing it - for example, he needs to not only let you know what he might do but also you two need to come up with a "SAFETY WORD." A word or phrase that you can say to him while in the heat of things that will have him stop immediately if you get uncomfortable.
2006-09-24 07:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by rrmorris45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very strange that you put this question into the "mental health" section, because D&S doesn't have anything to do with mental illness or whatever.
D&S requires an enormous amount of trust, but if you are both into it, it can give you a lot of pleasure.
I am not going to answer your question because I can't, the only one who can do that is your man and if you haven't asked him about it yet you are very stupid indeed, or, on the other hand, if you have asked and he hasn't answered to you, get the hell out of there as fast as you can.
2006-09-24 08:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by lindavankerkhof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a scenario example, read Stephen King's novel "Gerald's Game" in which that is the game and the scenario goes out of control very quickly.
2006-09-24 08:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can expect to be spanked, tied up, treated much like a child or a pet.
Takes enormous trust in your partner to submit to his will in all things.
Most consider such submission a perversion in the human relationship, but to each his/her own.
Good luck.
2006-09-24 07:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it all depends on how far he wants to get into it. slightly its just sexual control. more deeply, it can get very demanding. if he tries to break out all the s & m gear, run like hell, scary scary ****. unless you enjoy being tried roped and bound chained or even cuffed until he decides its enough. oh the masks are freaky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-24 09:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you mean sub and dom.
If both of you are into it I am sure you will have a lot of fun
2006-09-24 07:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just another way to abuse the beauty of sex the way God Created it to be......then it get weirder and wierder for you...then you can denegrade yourself and make him happy.
2006-09-24 08:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume people are familiar with your vocabulary unless you want to restrict participation to your question.
d/s????? d?????? s??????.
2006-09-24 07:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Rosita 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know what the f#$@ u r saying
2006-09-24 07:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by rick8011475 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋