To be 18 and already now the number of children you want and the names you like the job you want. I know want to be married at 24 be a history teacher or a marine biologist or zoologist and have a baby at 25-26 possibly 2 to 3 boys and a girl.And like the names Isabel or Joselin for a girl, vincent, john and david/ or michelle for boys. And also left room for a divorce at 34 - 35 if the marriage is going badly and a mid-life crisis at 38. I also plan to have at least a part time job and a carrier the whole way and to take three years off when i have kids. I am in my first year of college and already picked all this out even that i plan to graduate early and meet my husband there.
2006-09-24 07:19:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tend to be a bit driven and like to plan thing out a lot is this healthy? right now i am focused on school , family, friends , and getting a part time job.I even plan my social life out before i do anything .
2006-09-24 07:20:46 · update #1
makes me feel in control.
2006-09-24 07:25:30 · update #2
I even planned my retirement and the pet, jobs, and activitys i want to do.
2006-09-24 07:26:12 · update #3
I used to be a planner, but life NEVER hands things to you like that. Don't waste too much time doing that - not to mention passing over Mr. pretty darn good for a mr. right you'll never meet. Did you plan for a car crash, a miscarriage, or getting fired from a job? neither did I, but they all happened. Get an education and a good job, and take it from there. Don't be so rigid in your planning that you forget the little great things in life.
2006-09-24 07:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's okay to have a general idea of what you would like to be doing in 10 years....However planning a divorce before you ever met the guy is a bit over the top. And it is setting yourself up for failure. You need to loosen up a bit. I think your over programming yourself and you never know where life will take you. What if you are in an accident tomorrow and fall in love with your nurse? OR in the PT guy? Are you going to walk away from love if it isn't in your time frame? Or if he doesn't hold the right job? And what of kids...things rarely go as we plan...I hope you left a lot of room for things to change....
2006-09-24 07:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great to have a plan and to set goals for youself that you know you can achieve. That said, I think you need to chill a little. Live life to the fullest, take things as they come, go with the flow, make mistakes, take steps of faith... life's peaks and valleys are what make it so enriching and rewarding. Stay motivated, but don't be afraid to let things get sloppy every once in awhile. It's good for you.
2006-09-24 07:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Paul T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to plan but dont forllow it exactly leave room for unexpected changes, like you dont meet your husband at this place at this time... hun just take it easy, life is supposed to be fun, you cant plan everything, youll get a big disappointment
2006-09-24 07:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummmm... a bit wierd i would say. but its normal to plan life ahead... but don't let your goals and plans take over your life
2006-09-24 07:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by HaiHai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW and your set for life.....
2006-09-24 07:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋