I do not love my mother and I do not chat with her alot ...what about you?
2006-09-24 07:00:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I love my mother, very much!! My mom happens to be having alot of health problems, these past 10-12 years, and its only gotten worse, when she finally went to the doctor, and found out, she has to have like 3 major surgeries!! My mom doesn't want to be operated on again! She just turned 70, yesterday, and she keeps talking about how she doesn't think she's going to live much longer.. I hate, hearing this!! She & I are closer, than any of my other syblings are with my mom...And we talk every single day, on the phone... I just dont know what I would do without her!! I know the inevitable, will happen one day, one way or another, but, to imagine, life without my mother, just makes me want to cry, and I have, especially when she talks about how she thinks she's dieing... I'm so sorry to hear your not very close with your mother.. Just remember, that whatever she did, to offend you, that there isn't a "Book" that comes with "Parenthood" and we parents all make mistakes!! The bible says, if we dont forgive others God cant forgive us!! I think you should re-think, what it was that caused you to write this on Yahoo, and obviously its bothering you, if your writing it on this site... Do some "Soul-searching" and see what it is that causes you two to not be close.. And see what you can sacrifice, to make it all better... Thats what I would do.. Life's too short, for family differences, you know... None of us, are "Promised Tomorrow" the bible says.. So,if I were you, I'd reconcile with your Mum, and see how much you two can mend-things, anyway you can... Good-Luck, to you... Smile, it'll get better, just believe God, it will.. you know..
2006-09-24 07:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother brought you into this world and she loves you.
It is a very ungreatful, hateful child who doesn't love her/his own mother.
I love mine. She's completely insane, mentally ill, but she is the woman who gave birth to me and she raised me and although she made many mistakes, she did the very best that she knew how to do...because she loved me.
You should talk to your mother. You may grow up someday, and she will be gone, and you will have so many regrets.
I know right now you are going, "sure...I will never have regrets", but I guantee you will miss the times you could have spent talking with her.
She is your mother, for god sake. Give her a chance! She could have aborted you and thrown you away, but she chose not to.
What is this world coming to when a child doesn't even love its own mother? HOW HORRIBLE.
2006-09-24 14:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my mom, we are really close! I hate my father. He has always been psychologically/emotionally abusive. We had a fight in August and I have not spoken a word to him since. I finally got fed up with his trying to control me and my mom and I just let loose. I thought he was going to hit me and if he would have he would have seriously regretted it. It makes it very hard because we live in the same small town and my poor mother is stuck in the middle. Families....grrrrrrrr! Good luck and just know you are not alone!
2006-09-24 16:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by its me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do....however, I find that the older she and I get...the more she bugs me with trivial stuff. She'll call to complain about my sister....or she'll say she was just checking up to see how I was doing ( and I talked to her 4 days before). Sometimes...I don't answer the phone if I think that it is her....just let the machine get it. I know that sounds mean...but I have a life...2 kids...a husband...and sometimes I just can't deal with her issues and mine too. I do love her...she is my mom...but we don't have to talk every day.
2006-09-24 14:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure? when I was about 15, I didn't think I loved my mom either, but when I was about 18 I knew that was a lie. I've always loved my mom, I just didn't like her a lot when I was a teenager. I didn't like what she did or who she was at that time or even what she said, but I do love my mom. Maybe you just don't like her.
2006-09-24 14:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by kktruckin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you can NOT love your mother!?! Unless she is a horrible, mean, abusive person of somekind....
Of course I love my mother, she is my hero, my best friend, the person that I look up to the most.
2006-09-24 14:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by ~hopeless love~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I feel like I want to squeze her head until brain juice comes out but yes I do love her because she braught me into this world.
2006-09-24 15:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaawww y don't u love ur mom! without her (and ur dad) you wouldn't be here! there are a lot of things that mom's are good for! trust me u don't realize how much u luv ur mom until she's not there anymore! so cherish the tim you haf wit her! you never know when she won't be there!
2006-09-24 14:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by haitianluv4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do love my mom, but sometimes and under some circumstances I feel like I don't.. I think it happens with all of us.. it's natural.
2006-09-24 14:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... I love my mom. I think I love my dad more, but I love my mom. She's never done anything really wrong to me.. except yell at me when she's been drinking.
2006-09-24 14:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋