Does having sex the first time hurt. And if it does how bad on a scale from 1 to 10 and does it always hurt???
2006-09-24 06:52:24 · 19 answers · asked by Lexi S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it hurts. On a scale from 1-10, I would say a 6. No, it doesn't last forever, the first 2 or 3 times were difficult for me, the main thing is to remember to relax and breath don't get nervous and tighten your body. This will be different for everyone though, good luck!
2006-09-24 06:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It hurts bad. My scale would be about a 6.
I remember I felt like the insides were ripping on both sides and it felt awful. I cried, and I bled like I had a period, afterwards.
The main thing I remember was I lost it too young. I was only 17.
Your virginity is an actual treasure...it's kind of like this:
If you go to the store with me and we put out $5000 for a beautiful dress, what would you do with that dress?
When would you wear it?
For what type of occasion?
Where would you store it?
See, the dress is your virginity. You shouldn't wear it out to play, only for special occasions and you need to take care of it and keep it put away before this specail occasion (such as marriage) so that it does not become ruined and ripped up. Literally...it hurts that bad...and if you wear that dress every single day, it gets worn out and ruined.
My analogy is because I'm a mom and I was a teen mom. I have to tell you that anytime you are having first intercourse, under the adult age, it's very painful.
Having sex before marriage is an abomination in God's eyes. You are not supposed to do that, and are looked negatively upon for it.
God forbids it.
Think about what I wrote...please...before you make a huge mistake.
I guarantee once you give a boy your virginity, he will NOT stick around. Make him work for it, with a ring and a wedding first. Then he will appreciate what he got.
You aren't trash, are you? You are a special young lady...a little princess...and giving yourself away like that is how you throw trash away.
Don't do it.
Good luck.
2006-09-24 13:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't speak for anyone else but myself, but when I had sex for the first time it hurt really bad. I also was bleeding all over the place as well. If I had to rate how bad it was I would give mine a 9 for sure.
2006-09-24 13:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only the first time will you experience some slight pain and a couple of drops of blood, because there is a little tiny piece of skin that busts when you have sex the first time. Be careful though, even if it is your first time you can get pregnant if you do not know where you are in your monthly cycle. It is an untrue myth that you cannot get pregnant the first time.....
2006-09-24 13:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG It's been so long ago, but I think it was about a 4. Mostly it's because the boy is rushing and not waiting for you to be ready (fully lubed up). You need lots and lots of foreplay (kissing and touching first)
Don't listen to the bible-thumpers about sex before marriage. My parents waited and they were miserable seed spillers.. but that's another post altogther!!!
Anyway, it is very important to wait for the right guy who will be gentle with you and really cares about you (is he patient and waiting or pushing you? patient is good, pushing is very bad and dump his @$$ now). Your first experience is one you always remember and you want it to be happy. You can get pregnant too, so be safe, even if you think it'll be okay.
2006-09-24 14:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by bathagent 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Generally it hurts, but that depends on a lot of different factors. A lot of hymens are broken long before sexual intercourse.........but let me tell ya........It felt like a knife stabbing into me...not pleasant at all.........burning pain.....only the first time though. Yeah, I would say a 9.
2006-09-24 13:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it doesn't hurt that bad. It is uncomfortable. You spot and that's scary, but it's nothing compared to having a baby or anything. Make sure you're really up to it and ready for it and it won't be so bad. Good luck!
2006-09-24 13:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It has been along time, but yes the first couple times were rough. Just make sure you are relaxed and mature enough or you will regret it for years.
2006-09-24 13:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I lost my virginity by tampon and so first sex was painless. The tampon incident took seconds and was a 3 0n pain scale
2006-09-24 13:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah it hurts somtimes, but just think...after the first time, it feels good forever and ever. How fun would that be...?
2006-09-24 13:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by frankgrimes.rm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋