2006-09-24 06:46:59 · 23 answers · asked by Gemma H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you'll become sick of each other and won't have to deal witth the hastle of divorce!
2006-09-24 06:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it wouldn't lessen the chances of GETTING married, but sadly, I think it increases the chance of divorce. Look at Cherie above, who did it twice. And today's society more people are living together before marriage, and the divorce rate is increased. So no, I'd say your chances of getting married are not lessened, but if you want that marriage to last, then you might want to reconsider. It's a hard thing to think about when you feel at the moment you love the person- I know I've been really tempted at times, and think that I could control later, and that I'll never fall out of love with my fiance... but I think that looking at the world, alot of people ahve thought that and been wrong. :\ For my future kid's sake, I'd like to stay forever with one husband, and so am not moving in, or sleeping with my fiance until I get married.
2006-09-24 15:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by love_worth_waiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only think in the fact that one of you, or both may realise that you aren't as compatible as you had hoped, not because of the saying, if he can have his milk for free why buy the cow.
I believe living together before marriage is actually a smart thing. I did twice, and was married both times. So don't worry about not keeping the one you want, but know if you are meant to get married, you will wether you decide to live together first or not.
2006-09-24 13:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though the bible says you should not live under the same roof unless you are married, I recommend that you do. You want to see what it feels like to live with someone before you take that step. It may lessing the chance of marriage or it may strenghthen it.
2006-09-24 13:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe so, when you do this, you give the relationship the atmosphere of a marriage hence sometimes either one of the person's involved get the impression, that the formality of a legal document is unnecessary since it's like we ar married already.
2006-09-24 14:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Solitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe so, men are inherently lazy so if they are already living with you and seeing you all the time it takes more for them to propose (ie wanting kids or overwhelming love etc0 -- if you are not iving together then they propose earlier as they always aim for ease and ease is you living together and if he has to propose to get that he will. Maybe settle on a long engagement where you live together during the engagement period. So short answer dont live together first, not because he doesnt love you but becuase genetically men are programmed to do the least possible. Sorry men !!
2006-09-24 15:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are moving in with your partner why are you looking at, will it stop you having a chance of marriage, may be its better to stay away from moving in if your feelings are like they are at the moment
2006-09-24 14:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why it would Gemma I lived with my husband for 8 years before we got married. If its meant to be then it will happen if not just have fun finding out and try not too worry about it. Hope you will be very happy moving in with your boyfriend.
2006-09-24 13:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married, if you stay for 6 months or more you can then be classed as a a common law wife and dump him from the place and live there alone. You women have it easy.
2006-09-24 13:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really... It's a learnin exp 4 both of u in terms of gettin 2 noe each other more... U'll b able 2 give & take & understd each other better... Besides, it's fun & different wen u live 2gether...
2006-09-24 13:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by *Lyzerg* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe so, because he's probably not willing to commit. Of course only you know for sure. If you have to ask you probably have some doubt. It's one thing to be in love and another to just want to play house. When he finally gets bored or through playing house all he has to do is leave.
2006-09-24 13:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋