can i tell him i want to wait till im married? would it be fair? would it be possible for him? or would he have to cheat on me?
2006-09-24 06:37:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he respects you and what you want, then he will wait. If he loves you, he will not cheat. But if you think he may cheat because he can't wait, then I would re-think marriage with him.
2006-09-24 06:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Really Loves U Then He Will Wait 4 U No Matter What!! But U Have 2 Sure He Knows This Rite When U Get Into The Relationship That U Want 2 Wait And If He Accepts It He's A Keeper!
2006-09-24 13:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ya_Gurl_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can date him without doing anything; the problem is - will he be up for it? Chances are, no. Sexual interest is almost impossible to get rid of once it's developed, especially if you're a guy. If you can't give him the pleasure that he wants, he's gonna go somewhere else to find it. I think you're better off finding someone with your own standards and morals. The right person will come at the right time. I know that sounds cheesy, but it really is true.
2006-09-24 13:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to date him if he is already sexually active? Stand up for what you believe and then don't back down. If he can't cope he'll find someone else. You need to tell him right off the bat there will be no sex other wise you are setting yourself up for problems.
2006-09-24 13:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by miss moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't hang around long, just human nature. If your religious and the man abides by religious beliefs then the path you want to take will be easier. Buuuuut, if hes an average Joe who is sexualy active or has been, he won't hang around long at all!
2006-09-24 13:40:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he respects you, he will understand. and don't be biased towards him just because he is sexually active..because a lot of guys are..besides, why shouldn't it be fair? don't ever feel pressured, if you do, he is not the one for you. have self respect..leave a mark on him- be different then every other girl he's been with.
2006-09-24 13:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the man. I found someone who didn't want to wait. Then I found another who would do anything for me just because he loved me. Good Luck
2006-09-24 13:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah ide say hes not gonna wait, but if its that bug of a deal for you, ide just find the person who would wait
2006-09-24 13:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. It depends on what type of relationship he is looking for. You obviously want a serious, monogamous relationship. If he wants otherwise you may have a problem.
Ask him what type of relationship he wants with you. If he says he still wants to have other women then cut him lose or deal with it.
2006-09-24 13:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago, it was proper to wait until marriage before having sex, however times have certainly changed. You would have to find a special person who shares your values.
2006-09-24 13:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋