okay heres the thing i have a friend that is very much pretty, 4.0 student, funny..ect. but nobody likes her as more then a friend and the guys that she has gotten have either been loosers or very shallow. this rellt crushes her self asteam why do guys not ask her out and why do all the loosers like her??
2006-09-24 05:35:27 · 8 answers · asked by C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well most highschool guys are still childish maybe she outta find somone older like a couple years or like three at the most i mean thats usually it so i dunno she sounds okay maybe she has been blacked balled, it happens guys say hey stay away from her she is this or that you know well hope iv help somewhat?
2006-09-24 05:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by tip 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty and smart can be intimidating. The losers will go after anyone with a pulse, so she shouldn't put much stock in them. What she should do is go to places where she could find an equal. Maybe a book store or high end coffee joint. If we are talkin high school, go for band geeks. Intelligent, funny, not always the best lookers, but we age really well.
2006-09-24 05:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, your friend might be a good person. In fact a good frriend too to everyone. an angelic sort of person. Great. But, unfortunately she might be typecasting herself in her relationship with everyone. It's essential to hook up with that special person in your life on a differnt note... that is take friendship to the next level. it can't be taught. it comes from the heart. don't panic it's natural and will happen sooner or later good luck to her.
2006-09-24 05:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Probe24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really simple. If your friend is like you said its sad to say most men like women that are a little unsure. Her intellegence scares guys and feel that they are been judged and such. Its sad. the reason loosers and such chace her are she has no one and when they see that she is this way of low self conf. they see easy pickings. trust me when i say this tell her to be herself and things will get better.
2006-09-24 05:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no RIGHT answer to your question
she's jus probably in the wrong crowd
if she wants someone , she should go to parties n stuff
and if she seems too nerdy then that might be why guys dont like her
tryin not to hurt
if she has alot of guys as friends , she has to say to her self "why are these guys my friends and not more"
that will answer the question
2006-09-24 05:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys feel intimidated by really smart girls. She probably picks the losers because she thinks no one else wants her, and that's all she can get.
2006-09-24 06:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds very smart. nerds like smart girls
2006-09-24 05:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by wwe fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok wat ushould think about is maybe out of all the losers 1 of them is really cooland they will treat herthe way she should be treated
2006-09-24 05:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by dani s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋