long story short.. male friend/met on chat/7yrs. ago/moved local area june this year, job related/not for me/ we met august face2face/been hanging out since/1st he says he sees my ex fiance all the time near my house, warning me i'm being watched/2nd were some skanky female friends on his 360 (their look obviously stating what they are) he deleted them when he met me in person/telling me he is turning over new leaf/were intimate finally week ago/day afterward am on his 360 there are 9 new skanky women added as friends/said what i thought/ he blamed his brother/ said he didnt do it/ i dont believe him, he's 50 ok! letting his brother use his account?/ then sounds depressed and down whenever i talk to him since/makes me feel guilty for thinking what i did/ deleted all his accounts/ and leaving me mssgs that he's in love with me/CRAZY HUH? I feel he's tryin to push me to something more serious than i am ready 4, and I dont know what to believe.. advice please!
2006-09-24 05:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by sassyCat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, he always tells me we'll do something special together on a weekend, every friday he disappears, don't hear from him til sunday...always says it's something work related, but hasn't even given me the courtesy of calling until sunday to let me know what happened... other than all this.. treats me like a princess, brings me roses, opens doors, spends his spare time thru the week.. and also says after i said what i thought, that he's resigning his job as it's ruining his chance to pursue what he really wants hinting that that is me... even more crazy... all i wanted was a courtesy call, not the man to quit his job.
2006-09-24 05:15:09 · update #1
It wasn't petty jealousy (Amy M).. I merely told him how I felt about everything including the new people on his 360 (and those women are obviously into group sex, bi sex, and any kind of sex they can get according to their 360 OKKKKKK) and they were all added on a day he said he was working out of town and he was supposed to call me and didn't!! So it made me think he was out of town at some swingers meeting or something of the sort! I don't think that is jealousy, I think it's being careful!
2006-09-24 05:23:39 · update #2
You never really know someone you meet only on the net even if it was seven years. The fact that his brother can share his email is weird to me. Also you can't see him on weekends, Is he married and can only make excuses to see you during the week. I would stay away from him, be polite but firm and by all means ask him straight up if he's married. How old are you, you stated he was 50, that's a little old for these types of games. Find someone new, nice and new. And if he starts stalking you, call the police. Stay away he sounds like bad news to me. Sorry but that's my take on your situation.
2006-09-24 05:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that seven years is long sufficient to attend to get engaged. i become going loopy after 5 years and instructed him that the two we proceed with the dating to the subsequent direction or then i'm of course no longer the final individual for him. day after today we went procuring for the hoop. A 12 months after that we've been given married. all human beings's time schedule is distinctive, yet once you like him and he loves you and the dedication is there then why no longer bypass to the subsequent point? The the two one in all you have investited sufficient time to make effective that connection is there so waiting from now on is properly pointless. I propose no count if that is significant sufficient for then you definately he could be discussing it with you. you have those emotions and you'd be waiting to talk them to him. He should not be stringing you alongside like that and you may no longer could wait. take a seat and discuss with him and tell him how significant that is which you seek suggestion from him your emotions and supply him a timeframe interior the close to destiny, to no longer back him interior the wall, yet to push him alongside. tell him you're actually not in contact concerning to the ask your self ingredient, purely as long because it happens quickly. If no longer God is conscious while he would be waiting, perhaps he purely desires slightly flame under his butt. properly sturdy success and that i'm hoping that each thing is going properly. let us know.
2016-10-17 21:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by dampier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 50 so that means your an older woman to i would have thought the petty jealousy would have been outgrown they are woman on the Internet big deal if he chats with them as long as that's all it is and never judge a book by it's cover you called them skanks because of how they look grow up your to old to still behave like a teenager
2006-09-24 05:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask us why? Listen to your conscious! If you have an inner voice tellling you to hold back- then listen to it! If you forgo that little voice- you will lose control of the situation, and it will take a lot of repairs to fix the damge you will incurr- because we are talking about you going deeper into a relationship with a scumbag. aren't you worth more than that? You can answer this yourself! Good luck.
2006-09-24 05:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sweetie, you have not "known" this man for 7 years......you only know what he has told you!! The red flags are flying all over the place!!! He is 50 and is into 360......DUH!!! What is wrong with this picture??? He is a predator......He is NOT "in love" with you......again, he is using you and is a predator!!!! It is now up to you on what you want to do about it.
2006-09-24 05:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he sounds like really bad news. There is too much evidence against him for you to trust him. You don't want to be with someone that unstable. Be careful about ending it, he sounds really unpredictable.
2006-09-24 05:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh, sounds like trouble to me, get out of here quickly!
He is obviously not a good guy.
2006-09-24 05:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he know if your ex is watching you? Does this mean he is watching you too? He doesn't sound trustworthy.
2006-09-24 05:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a cheat....leave him now before its too late.
2006-09-24 05:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋