I had a friend that was strictly booty call, after a few time meeting we started talking and getting to know more about eachother. After about 5 months we tried it without protection. After that things havent been the same. We started having feelings for eachother, and now 9 months later we are telling eachother i love you. I know what i love is i have a daughter, but the question is can it really be love considering im 17 and he is older than 25? I know that teenagers think differently than adults do, but i love him just as much as i love my daughter, but i question myself because of how things started out. Our emotions are steady, we dont ever argue ,and when he's out of town im not dying and cant concentrate. I manage to stay focused on my school work i cant even look at another guy because it seems like he is perfect for me. what do you think
2006-09-24 05:01:05 · 11 answers · asked by *Bella Reveuse* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has nothing to do with not using a rubber. We have both gone to an std clinic and we are both clean. Plus i am on Birth control and we use spermicide. Im not that stupid. Its not like i used the rubber on him once, it was 5 months after that we didnt use it and thats when took other necessary precautions. Being a teen mom, i wasnt looking for any relationships, but sex is sex. It makes you feel good. That doesnt make you a whore.
2006-09-24 05:29:29 · update #1
Sounds like things are going good, just tread cautiously, b/c you are young in comparison to him. I question why a 25 yr old would date a 17 yr old, but hey everybody's different and unless he's given you reason to question him I would just go w/the flow, but keep your eyes and ears open......
2006-09-24 05:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two things make sure he gets a vasectomy or wears a rubber .Also i dont want to be judgemental here but your 17 and he is 25 .I dont know the rules for age of consent in your state .Thats a biggy .Having said that yes he could be very well in love with you .Women release copulins making love .(scent of a woman) These copulins are pheromones of the loving kind .Researchers have found out nonprotective vaginal intercouse will not only cause coplins to work as a pheromone but as a transdermal human hormone.Do it enough that way he is going to be a puppy on leash , your knight in shining armor .Have him get a vasectomy tho .Above all check the area laws for age of consent .If it is love and your close to 18 dont be talking to much about him being 25 and you being 17.
2006-09-24 12:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bootycall? With a kid already? My word, you need to attend some "sex causes pregnancy" classes. By the way, 'bootycall' is another way of saying 'w hore'. Sex without responsibility is ignorant.
2006-09-24 12:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pfitter 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all you sure did start early having kids as far as it being really love its just lust dear he is going to get what he can out of you and u will be old news in no time my advice is focus on school and let that grown man alone.. seems like you sprung
2006-09-24 12:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this isn't about what anyone else thinks. it is how you feel , at 17 love can be as real as at 27. you have to be true to yourself and to each other. best wishes to you both.
2006-09-24 12:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by iron chef 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh babes...can yah do a booty call with meeeeeeee lol
2006-09-24 17:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your messed up a daughter at 19 what happend to the first guy if you ask me your a slut!
2006-09-24 12:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are 17 and already have one kid, so why in hell are you porking someone without protection again? Can you say "trailor trash"?
2006-09-24 12:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a kid and your 17 and then you had unprotective sex again...you have bigger problems!
2006-09-24 12:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's so retarted
2006-09-24 18:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by lizzie123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋