ok he rejected me weeks ago but he is staring at me and we have the moments where no one is here except me and him. but he has a gf.. unfortuantely.. He also did a handshake to me then walked away and in english class he suddenly reads why I wrote.. he is always being 'near' me i guess but wtf is going shouldnt he be with his girl? I like him alot but I don't want to ruin it.. What should I do? does he like me now? This guy is so confusing!
2006-09-24 04:52:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me micro-analyse this situation for you:
he rejected you-that means he knows you like him
he has a gf-no hope for you
he is being near you-either he wants to be just friends with you or maybe he is trying to bolster his ego by making you still like him by raising your hopes
yes, he should be with his gf.
look at this objectively, would you want a guy like this to be your boyfriend?
my conclusion: Jerk-O.
You should ignore him. Why? If he likes you, ignoring him will make you more attractive to him, then he will like you more and more.
If he doesn't like you but is just a jerk, ignoring him will make him hot for you and then you can reject him like a classy lady.
2006-09-24 05:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look showdy all guys are confusing ite lol i'm confusing i'm a guy but we think you are confusin its life, well ite so if ya really wanna find out if he likes you what you do is just show no interest in him play the game back, thats what it is essiantly is a game, so just do it i mean right now its a game dont get me wrong but once you two hook up or whatever be real so ya just play back till its time to get real showdy ite late
2006-09-24 04:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by tip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have several questions. There is this guy in my class who will talk to everyone else, but not me, or when he has someone with him, he will talk to me only then.This whole situation is strange, because he blows hot and cold, meaning, one day he is able to muster up the courage to look me in the eye and say hello, and the next day he gives me the completely silent treatment,won't look at me, or ignores me. Now this is strange, sometimes he will communicate with me, but only through other people. I have heard from my class mates, that this guy is amazed at my accomplishments, and has even gone as far as to say I am the superstar in the class, but he will not come directly and talk to me, but have someone relay to me something he said. He isolates me, because he talks to every single one of my class mates, but he will absolutely not talk to me, and he is very nervous,uptight and clams up when I walk into the class, and then he will just stare from a distance. He will spill his guts to every single one of my class mates regarding personal problems, but he will absolutely not talk to me, though he says it loud enough for me to hear. I cannot figure out why 1. This guy is ignoring me, because I honestly have never done anything, or said anything to him except hello and how are you. Oh wait, he will blush when he does say hello to me, or when I say something nice to him 2. Why has he isolated me by only talking to all my classmates? 3. Why does he blow hot and cold with me from one day to the next. You do not suppose he is trying to get me to like him by ignoring me do you, or do you just think he hates my guts? Honestly, why he would hate my guts is beyond me, since I have never done or said anything bad to him. I am very shy, and it takes enough courage for me to just say hello to this guy. I do like him, as he is very cute, but I will not ever let him know, especially since he is treating me like this. When he treats me like this, it makes me so darn mad, and I feel like telling him, either you be kind to me every day, or if you choose to ignore me, than just do it all the time, instead of blowing hot and cold. Oh and by the way, he doesn't have GF. I know this for a fact. Well, what do you guys and gals think?
2006-09-27 09:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS long as he is with someone else. MOVE ON. SOME ONE is going to get hurt.
2006-09-24 04:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO he is after one thing ..and you know .once that's over
it's good by..lol
2006-09-24 04:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a friend
2006-09-24 04:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple-I WILL USE YOUR WORDS.HE REJECTED U!!!!!FIND A GUY WHO CARES ABOUT U!!
2006-09-24 05:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋