i wanna stop crying ... i wanna stop thinking about him..... need help.....??

Question

whenever i am alone (most of the times) i start crying missing my friend..... ya i emailed him sayin i miss him... i dont wanna nudge him to reply (i think he has no time rite now to reply cuz hes busy adjusting) but i just wan some help ... which can make me smile and think positive... i miss my best frnd .... ya i loveee him tooo much .. if i go tell him again n again then hell get a lil edgy about me....

Answer 1

eat a bologna sandwich, that always cheers me up!!

Answer 2

hello, i can very well understand ur situation. you really miss him & hence u r in a kind of a very lone condition. no props dear. it happens all the time. i can really feel the thing bcoz i know wat happens wen u r not with ur best friend(s) or your love. & u r on right place (online) to share your feelings. i jus wonder, y some people here gave u very rude replies.

OK, now b a little tough to read the next thing. sometimes love & lonliness gets over your brain so much that you forget everything. now recall the purpose of your existence. you were born to your parents. they brought u up to wat u r now. there is a responsibility u 've got 2 fulfill for em. sitting idle, thinking of him, loving him, is this the only job you have left with.

dont u think that there are many who expect smthing else from you. your parents, your family, your friends, your nation & humanity.
even if you get your love as you wanted, is everything in this world over. listen, we are young, & in this age, love gets heavy over other things, i understand. but that doesnt mean that you leave everything & go after it.

ok, take it this way. if the guy has no time 4 u, then bcome smthing 4 which all will save time. not only him. bcome one to whom he will b attracted to.

anyway. but this is not life, honey. these feelings only remain for few years. & then you see a very dreadful face of the world. where there is competition in every field. have u any idea, where u can land in future with these feelings in present.

you have to be a little tough to take these things. you have to control ur feelings at any cost. or else you are going 2 ruin ur career. this is the age to do smthin n show 2 the world, hu r u, no matter, u r a boy or a girl.

And since u r a gal, i can say that u r a bit more sensitive. no matter, young lady. when your feelings are beyond control, just share them online this way, or find a friend on net, to say things. get the burden off your chest in these things. this is what i do. this keeps me focused, & i also share my feelings to a stranger friend on net. then i become quite comfortable. cmon, wake up & look at the world. there are lots of things waiting for u.

be strong. all the best. in case u feel that u wanna write n share 2 me, jus mail me at [e-mail]. iwould b there 2 help u.

and i also appreciate the above answer. it is good. follow it.

Answer 3

Engage yourself in studies, creative work or hobbies, instead of sobbing. Why are you crying anyway? He hasn't ditched you and will get in regular touch with you after he has completed his...er...adjustments. Give him the time and space to...adjust, if you are a real friend of his instead of trying to get on his nerves. If your friendship is real, he misses you as much as you do. And about smiling...why do you ask for help? You can do that well enough on your own, if you want to. It doesn't cost you a dime and also increases your face value if you have a sparkling pair of teeth. It is good for your heart too. Now SMILE.

Answer 4

Keep yourself busy. Don't spend so much time alone. Keep yourself away from situations that will trigger the tears. Life is way to short to dwell on things you can't change.

Time really does heal all wounds. Give him space and time. If it is meant to be, he will come back to you. If not, there is someone else out there for you. Plenty of nice guys in the world.

Answer 5

Dear Friend,
Hello!
If u want to be happy, then watch TV comedy serials , listen songs which rejoice u not sad songs.Make yourself busy with ur hobbies and relatives . Never remain alone in ur home or elsewhere.You shall get better Friend than him.
Yours
rkbhartiya

Answer 6

Spend some "me" time to help get your mind off of him. Go to a spa & get a massage, it'll make you feel so much better. Go to a coffee shop & read a book. Watch a movie at home, or better yet exercise/yoga will do the trick. Spend that time with yourself while he's getting himself situated.

Answer 7

Dear Friend,
U really deserve better,
we not force anyone to love us,so accept the truth,i know its hurt too much but time its best solution.
plan to a go movie Laga rao munabai with our friends or family.
I understand ur feelings becoz I was also lost some thing.
how much time u want to wait? or just move it.I know what i say its not easy.but really u have to do something best to show him what he lost.
ok bye
ashu
take care,keep smiling
hope is life is hope

Answer 8

I hope this answers your question...

5 WAYS TO GET OVER HEART BREAK

If you feel like your heart has broken, you're not alone. Just about everyone experiences the type of grief we call heartbreak at one time or another - and some people seem to have their hearts broken many times throughout their lives. Just think about all the songs you've heard on the radio about broken hearts! Of course, it's not really your heart but your feelings that are hurt.

Lots of things can cause heartbreak. Sometimes you might experience the pain of a romantic relationship that ends before you're ready. It might be because you love someone who doesn't feel the same way. Or maybe you've lost a friend or relative or someone else you care about. The causes may be different, but the feeling of loss is the same - whether it's the loss of something real or the loss of something you only hoped for. People describe heartbreak as a feeling of heaviness, emptiness, and sadness.
Although poets have written about the pain of heartbreak for thousands of years, when it's happening to you, you may feel like no one else in the world has ever felt the same. Or maybe you feel like every sad song was written just for you and your situation!

If you're recovering from a broken heart, there are things you can do to lessen the pain. Here are some tips that might help:

· Share your feelings. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust may help you to feel better. That could mean simply talking with a friend or family member. For some, letting the tears flow seems to help them heal faster. For others, simply hanging out together and doing things you normally enjoy, like seeing a movie or going to a concert, can be comforting. Somehow just being with someone who cares about you can make things feel a little better.

· Take good care of yourself. A broken heart can be very stressful. But don't let the rest of your body get broken, too. Get lots of sleep, eat healthy foods, and exercise regularly to minimize stress and depression and give your self esteem a boost.

· Remember what's good about you. Sometimes people with broken hearts start to blame themselves for what's happened. They may be really down on themselves, exaggerating their faults as though they did something to deserve the unhappiness they're experiencing. If you find this happening to you, nip it in the bud! Remind yourself of your good qualities, and if you can't think of them because your broken heart is clouding your view, get your friends to help you remember what's good about you.

· Keep yourself busy. Sometimes this is difficult when you're coping with sadness and grief, but it really helps. This is a great time to redecorate your room or try a new hobby. That doesn't mean you shouldn't think about what happened, it just means you should focus on other things, too.

· Give yourself time. It takes time for sadness to go away. Almost everyone thinks they won't feel normal again, but the human spirit is amazing - and the heart almost always does heal after a while. But how long will that take? That depends on what caused your heartbroken feeling - and on how you deal with loss and how quickly you tend to bounce back from things. Mending a broken heart can take from a couple of days to many weeks - and sometimes even months.

While we're at it, we might as well mention a few things that won't help. Like getting angry (or desperate) and trying to hurt yourself or someone else, drinking or taking drugs to feel better or become numb, or locking yourself up in a dark room.


Sometimes, though, the sadness is so deep - or lasts so long - that a person may need some extra support to deal with a broken heart. For someone who is not starting to feel better after a few weeks or who continues to experience signs of depression, talking to a psychologist or other mental health professional can be very helpful.

So, be patient with yourself - and let the healing begin.

Answer 9

You must be a young girl my advice is just to move on it seems like your in a lopsided relationship so balance it out be cutting him loose.Don't worry you will definitely fall in love many more times and you'll look back and say what the hell was i thinking.

Answer 10

You need to do other things to get your mind off him, and don't be so stuck on him all the time. Guys don't like clingy friends. Do other things, like talk to your other friends, hang out with them, cook, read, do something else to keep your mind off him. If you're always emailing him, it may get annoying. Just give him some space and he'll come running to YOU.

Answer 11

Go out shopping or go out with other friends. Make new ones too. It'll gradually help you get your mind off of him. Dont worry about it. I mean, if you told him before, and he still hasn't relied, either he doesn't care anymore (it's not a big deal to him), or he's busy. But either way, you've gotta keep your head up.

:-)

Hope i've helped you out.