one. my b/f is an ars?@"£ and dosent care about anything so i haven't told him and im feeling like shite, I have beautiful son but it is "normal" to miss the ones ive lost?
2006-09-24 04:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by Carly T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Im sorry for your loss, yes it is perfectly normal to miss the babies uve lost. My b/f an ars 2 so i know where ure coming from on the supportive side.
Feel free to email me if u want to chat.
Good luck
2006-09-27 00:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by mum2bogey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal to miss the one you have lost. I had a miscarriage and I cried like a baby. I wondered how I could possibly feel that way about a baby that I had never actually seen but what comforts me is the fact that I will see my baby in Heaven one day. I told a friend of mine the other day that when I die the first thing I would do would ask God to show me my child. You will be okay, just trust that God knows everything and nothing happens by mistake. One day God will make all things better.
2006-09-24 11:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by justified_2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what you are going through. I have two beautiful sons, I lost a baby in between my boys in 2002. I miss that baby very, very much. It's perfectly normal for a mother to grieve the children she has lost.
2006-09-24 11:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by shanesmommy01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear of your loss. i have never been in your situation, but yes i would think it would be "normal" to miss the ones you lost. being pregnant again will no doubt bring back memories and make you feel like this. however i think that when you lose a baby it was meant to be and please dont think i mean that in a nasty way because i dont. you tell us you have a beautiful son so enjoy him and look forward to your new arrival. i wish you all the best. take care.
2006-09-24 11:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by mrsc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all get rid of your b/f, if hes really the a*@!$hole you say he is not worth staying with, i also lost a baby quite a few years ago, ive since had another 3 babies but i still get upset about the babe i lost especially when i already feel low about something, like i said get rid of the a*@!hole and concentrate on you, your son and newly expected baby. hope all goes well for you.
2006-09-25 12:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by The Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss -- If your b/f is so useless why do you want another baby with him? The fact is you have lost 2 already. Enough is enough.
Get rid of him then, become a single parent.
2006-09-25 07:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your troubles,its a shame about your b/f not being supportive towards you.My thoughts are with you.
I would say it is very normal to miss grieve/mourn the loss as you actually conceived and carried them for however long or short a period of time.
Good luck for the future.
2006-09-24 11:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by any 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. Keep your head up. as a mother you will NEVER forget the ones you lost. So YES it is normal!
2006-09-24 11:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal you will miss the one you lost they are your babies and im so sorry your b/f is not supotive hope u feel better
2006-09-24 13:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by super mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear bout what has happened. you will always miss them as you dont no what they would have been like as as for your bf theres no words to describe him im sorry but he should be supporting you through this difficult time.
2006-09-24 13:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋