I have had a certain girlfriend for over 2 years now, and early on in the relationship she told me I was horrible at it. Confidence smasher, I tell ya. All of my previous dates/girlfriends/interests that I have kissed had said the opposite. I had always felt good about my kissing ability. I had always enjoyed it. Now, after this much time it's begun to bother me. I try and change it up.I try and try and try, and yet no change. And she still doesn't like it at all. I'm beginning to not like kissing. WHAT DO I DO WITH THIS?? Is there a way to fix our problem....is it me....or is it her??
2006-09-24 04:08:03 · 15 answers · asked by Jonesy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you two should be talking about what it is she likes. Get her to kiss you in the way she wants to be kissed. Try not to move your lips at all, just let yourself feel the sensations. Do this a couple of times and then try to imitate what she did to you on her. Have her give directions, if she thinks you're doing something wrong, and compliments if she like what you're doing. Have fun practicing!
2006-09-24 04:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by P. C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Typically girls enjoy very gentle kisses. Usually no tongue at all until the moment is heated enough. Very soft, and very gentle. You have to make her want more. Make it soft but playful. If you have see the 90/10 rule from the movie Hitch, that does ctually work also. The premise is that you don't just go in for the kiss. You have to make her come for it. You go 90% of the distance, and make her go for the last 10%.
Now, the fact that the relationship has been for quite some time and she still doesn't like to kiss you for whatever reason, is a little odd. If you find yourself trying to steal a kiss here or there, that could be whats bothering her and not so much the kissing style itself. Apply the 90/10 rule her as well. Show her you are willng to go the extra mile, but that she has to take the last few steps. Hope this helps.
2006-09-24 11:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by neon49 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be a bigger confidence crusher, but the previous girls might have been lying. We do that sometimes to spare the guy. Some bad kissers I've known have had problems like being to aggressive with their tongues, or opening their mouthes too wide. Also try talking to the girl to find out what styles of kisses she likes.
2006-09-24 11:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by blndmnd1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship for two years and still can't get it right? Wanna know what you are doing wrong? You stayed with her for 2 years! She doesn't care about you as a man. If she did, she wouldn't try to break you down like that. Show her you are the man and dump the her. You don't have time for her games.
2006-09-24 11:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? if it was me like you i have never had a problem kissing and she says i suck now? well you tell her its her just be straight with her, so two years later she still sayin you aint no good at it? have you asked her like how do you want me to kiss women? just be real man thats bout all i got
2006-09-24 11:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by tip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you tongue-ing her all the time??? Try lip-kissing. It is quite sensual and interestingly teasing too
2006-09-24 11:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be her ... if others have told you it was good ... maybe she expects it to be different ... and/or she may have issues of with the swapping of germs & such .. some people are like that. may be you need a new girlfriend.
2006-09-24 11:11:59 · answer #7 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you look into her eyes for a while....before kissing ?
2006-09-24 11:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by sud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you kiss after your lips touck her's, suck really hard. (like your sucking on a triple thick shake) Don't worry just keep on sucking as hard as you can. that's how you give a really good kiss.OK.
2006-09-24 11:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ehh she doesnt like the way ur kissing? try another way lol
2006-09-24 11:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by xcutiex534 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋