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2006-09-24 03:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by TANISH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...can't count how many times it's been broke, The last time was about 12 years ago, and I'm over it by now, but those broken heart days effect me today in relationships. Time is the healer and what you do with that time helps the healing process. Drinking does not help to take the pain away it's still there the next morning...plus drinking can give you the courage to do something that you might regret later. I had to find a new place to live cause the memories were in the place even though she was gone. What ever we acquired together I got rid of or hid for a while. I did not get into another relationship right away till after I was healed (about 2 years)...it's not fair to you or the new girl you meet next. Getting into another relationship right away just takes your mind off of the broken relationship for a while. Try going to places that you haven't gone before and try to enjoy yourself. I would talk with the married women for great advice especially if they had sons that went through something similar. Nothing can make you happy (maybe temporary things like buying new things...etc) except that your happy with who YOU ARE as a person and remember life does go on even though it doesn't seem like it.
2006-09-24 03:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 times..... These were long term relationships (more than 1.5 years each). After the second time, I went for counseling more to rediscover who I really was and what I really enjoyed doing. It was a long hard road to recovery but I managed to get through. The thing is when we get into serious relationships, we forget who we are and the things in life that define our true selves. In the process of making the other happy, we neglect ourselves. You see, when you give your heart to someone, make sure you hold onto 1% of your heart so that when things fall apart, you have the 1% to rebuild your heart and your life and then life won't look as gloomy because you know you didn't totally lose your self. This is a rushed answer but I hope I made some sense. Take care
2006-09-24 03:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had my heart broken 2 times in my life. The first was in high school with a guy that I dated for a year. We broke up because he said I was marriage material and it scared him. I cried for a week and quickly moved on. The second was when i was 24. I had fallen deeply in love with a man that had many flaws but I thought was my perfect match. I didn't care that he drank too much or appeared to have too many women friends. I just loved him for him. We married and were together for two blissful years and then he left me. I was completely devistated. For months I wouldn't go out or even think of dating. Then one day I realized that life was passing me by and I had to climb out of the hole I was in so I asked a new guy out and suffered through a date. It was bad but, each time I went out the pain lessened and it got better. It's true that time heals all wounds. The key is that you can't give up...you just go on.
2006-09-24 03:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by txwildhare2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so manny times that i don't even remember,but i couldn't handle too good.i was cry and cry untill i had no tears.when youre heart it's broken u think that all people want's to hurt u.but it's not like that.all u have to do is to get over with it fast or u become a person hwo is keeping inside all the feelings and this is not good
2006-09-24 03:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
13 times. 13 painful times. getting dumped and replaced?
how did i manage? simple... i cry for days, for weeks, for months... then look at the brighter side of life. believe that there's this one person destined to mend my broken heart, destined to love me forever and destined to be my all.
life does not end after a break up. hurt is always a part of loving. it's part of the deal we're taking. but if it's worth loving, it's worth taking risks.
2006-09-24 03:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by maryannemax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happened few times when I proposed and got rejected. Gals only love money, rich guys nothing else
2006-09-24 03:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 TIMES I MOVED ON TO THE NEXT BOY I LIKED
2006-09-24 03:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jakele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once.eighteen months ago.only time can heal such a wound.tried drinking,being stupid etc.now i am coping with it.
2006-09-24 03:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by kobie65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋