Ok, here's what happened. Last night my boyfriend and I were talking, and there's this other guy I like a lil bit more than a friend. Well, when I asked him what he would do if I told him that I liked another guy, not being obvious about telling him and he told me, he would hit things really hard and then find a weapon and kill himself, cuz he loved me too much. Well, then I told him I liked someone else, he didnt talk to me for a minute, then I asked him if he was mad at me and he said "A DUH!!" and then he had me talk to his cousin while he went for a walk, he came back like, 10 minutes later. When he came back I asked him if he was still mad at me he said "i dont know" and we talk for a while then he wouldn't talk to me and he had agreed to call me, but I'm afraid he wont and I really need some advice for this situation. Oh yea and I'm 12 and he's 13.
2006-09-24 03:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont care if im young, i just want advice
2006-09-24 03:26:42 · update #1
I'm the same age!
It's a little young for love. Dating is COOL and you're lucky to be doing it! But a true commitment would waste your years of finding someone you REALLY could love.
2006-09-24 03:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Best Answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH what shocked me was your age! wow i'm 18 and have only just started going out with my first boyfriend. I waited for him for 3 years before telling him i liked him-i just HAD to be sure that he was perfect- and he IS. anyway i guess what i'm trying to say at age 13 it's really not very likely to be in love and i think its actually a bit young to worry about relatinships. you should be going out with your girlfriends, having fun before the sreiuos relationships take up most of your time later on in life.
he's only 13 years old, i've never heard of any 13 year old hurting themselves over a girl. (but the anagin i'd never have thought 13 year old even thoght about things like that-somaybe i'm just behind@!!)
anyway sorry i'm not much help, all i can say is that you shoudnt have to worry about some weirdo telling you he'll hurt himself, it's all just talk!
Good Luck with the other guy though (i hope he'smore sane than this guy)
;-)
2006-09-24 10:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by blithe_vow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really hurt him bad with your announcement of liking another guy more than a friend . . . that's what I never understand about some people . . I know you're young, but at the same time, you're already in a relationship with somebody . . how can that relationship really work, if you're still out there looking for someone better? . . . do the world a favor and just stay single and have friends . . .
2006-09-24 10:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are way to young to be on the computer asking these kind of questions.. Does mom and dad know you are doing this? Trust me, in this day and age, little girls and boys not need be on a computer with Peta files out there.. OK. So please be very careful.
2006-09-24 10:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still young........ there's a lots more choices out there. and believe me it wont last........ why dun u leave him for a while, let him think again abt urguys relationship. dun force him, dun urges him though. meanwhile u ask urself are u really fall in love wt him or etc.
2006-09-24 10:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by avo82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..in my opinion..both of u r still immature in this kindda love..u r still young n ur heart are still fragile to those boys..same with ur bf..he seems like he never met other gurl than u before..so..just let time to cure this..once he meet other gurl..he will be ok n he will feel the same like u did..
good luck!~
2006-09-24 10:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you think this is the end of the world as you know it, but in reality, it is not even a speck of dust on your relationship radar.
Good luck with your life...enjoy your childhood...and don't sweat the relationship stuff...
At your age, it is definitely not worth it!!!
2006-09-24 10:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My brother is twelve and im 10 turning eleven soon. but you shouldn't tell him that you like another guy. Just try to work it ok.
2006-09-24 10:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by gub gub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and love him. I think you should talk to him that it wasn't serious and make sure that he feels and understands completely that you love him. Once his misunderstanding is gone then that's it your problem is done.
2006-09-24 10:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Yogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl, he will forget you when the next piece of tail comes by.
2006-09-24 10:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by tgapo62712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋