i like him soooooooooooooooooo much and im movin away ive sed yeah 2 him but i dont wonna have sex!!!
help
2006-09-24 03:10:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's illegal don't do it. you are just a child. Tell him to have a cold shower and dont do it. You will regret it when you are older. He should find someone his own age. Honey you may think that you are a big woman and incontrol of your body but you are actually just a baby, Wait until you are at least 16. Please dont do it for the sake of your parents. Not that I have a daught yet but if I did it would break my heart to find out that at 13 she had sex with a 16 yr old. I would probably drive over to his parents house with a shot gun, collect him and march you both into church to get married.
2006-09-24 03:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick you your guns on this one. Never ever have sex just to make a guy like you. Believe me, he will be telling his mates everything, even if he has to make half of it up. Seriously, at 13 you are way too young and he could be charged with statutory rape, you are still a child in the eyes of the law.
2006-09-24 03:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pauline N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most boys at 16 are mainly interested in just sex, its the way their body goes- that is where their brain is[shall we say] at this time and most other times. Don't even consider it at your age. It can mess you up mentally. You will have the same feelings about other boys, and hey u might even meet another nice guy when u move! Us older girls know!!
2006-09-24 03:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by newy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For god's sake child! Firstly and most importantly, you say you don't want to have sex; well, DON'T!!
And secondly, if you think so much of him, stick to that decision, because if you do have sex with him, he is breaking the law - so effectively you will have ecouraged him in criminality morally, if not legally.(You aren't legally responsible, I don' t think, 'cos yr under age)
Thirdly, whatever he may say about loving you and caring about you, if you are moving away, all he's bothered about really is getting his end away!
2006-09-24 03:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by migdalski 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to have sex you have all your life in front of you if you move away you will forget about him because there will be another boy who will replace him. It might look bad now but all he will be after is just a notch on his belt anyone can say i love you they are easy words to say forget him you are too young you have so much to do yet
2006-09-24 03:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by nancy_habershon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be illegal for this boy to have sex with you anyway. If it is sex that all he wants then i think you should finish it now as there is more to a relationship than just sex. There is feelings and loving and getting to know each other properly and what each other wants.
2006-09-24 03:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by madangelbabe28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sixteen is to old for you. You don't even know what love is. You may think you do but your to young. Hang out have fun and stop moving so fast. You have plenty of time for serious relationships.
2006-09-24 04:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are such things as 16 year old Paedophiles.
You need to steer clear of this lad as it is clear he is only after one thing and he is trying to control you and take away your innocence,
Take control and tell him where to go because that's just the thing he does not want to hear.
Take Care.
2006-09-24 03:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by mentor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out his intentions.. if he wants a physical relationship and you want to persue a platonic one then I think you should end it just because he's in it for the wrong reasons. He's also older (and probably more experienced) than you. (unless you're fine with that)
2006-09-24 03:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by untilyoucamealong04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't try it , tell ur mommy first ok. it is not a good idea. if u can't try to tell ur dad and see how hot he is going to look. if the 16 year old boy is really interested he will surely wait OK.
2006-09-24 03:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋