I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years about two years ago. And now my old friends, girls and guys are saying that I could have done better, and that they hated her, or she was fat. how come your friends never tell you until after its done.
2006-09-24 03:04:31 · 8 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause they care
2006-09-24 03:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Best Answer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just trying to make you feel better. and would real friends not tell you what thought ? I would, if I don't care for some one you can be sure I would say so. I do not have to like every one .
2006-09-24 03:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends will support you in all cases...even when you are making a bad decision.
When that "decision" is no longer part of your life, tehy will let you know how they actually feel. I am sure that you have kept something from your friends as well as not to hurt them.
2006-09-24 03:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends respect your dicisions, as far as, your relationships.
If you like fat unlikable ladies, your friends want you to be as comfortable as possible and remain a friend. Another thing, A friend does not want to be a part of causing your unhappiness.
2006-09-24 03:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by gogo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they weren't your real friends. I'd consider finding new ones who aren't affarid of telling you the truth even when it may hurt your feelings at first.
2006-09-24 03:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by skr1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were never your friends, i have this motto if you can't keep it real with me whether it's good or badd then keep it moving. I guess that's why i don't have friends you can't trust people.
2006-09-24 03:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your friends doesnt want to hurt your feelings. they are after your happiness no matter what. see...they are still there after the break-up?
2006-09-24 03:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by pea_1208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are afraid that you wont be your friend anymore.
2006-09-24 03:07:50 · answer #8 · answered by fffffffffuuuuuuuuuuulololol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋