2006-09-24 02:44:09 · 20 answers · asked by goodbye and good luck :-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-09-24 02:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its different with every child, no child is the same they all have different personalities and look at life in a differant way. I do believe that what stems from childhood can last a lifetime if you let it. Some people find it hard to have a physical relationship and others look for physical contact continuously.Being deprived of physical affection can also mean that there wasn't a lot of emotional affection either and that can effect confidence, self worth, but with council ling can get over this and lead a perfectly normal life.
2006-09-24 12:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by EMMA O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends ....... if you have been deprived of affection, but are not aware of it, so you think that the way you live is normal, I guess that could be a problem because you may not give or receive affection normally, however, if you know that you are being deprived of affection and wish things were different, then I hope you have loving, caring people in your life other than your parents.
The first time a person is in a parent/child relationship, they are the CHILD.
The second time a person is in a parent/child relationship, they are the PARENT.
You do not have to be the kind of adult your parents were.
2006-09-24 12:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a child it depends on them personly but it will allways affect them deep down, it can cause them to do anything for attenchon, steal, hit anything that will get attenchon, negitive as they have never got possitive, and when they have they have to ask to rarly get it, in the first 8 years a child needs love and affection! once they reach 8 you ahve to let go little by little and in the end they grow up :) theres a huge problem with over protective parents and parents who would let their kids smoke at 7! or drugs out till evry late and so on! the middle boundrys and rules but love and affection is the best way to bring up a child
good luck
bunny x
2006-09-24 10:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyjaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think honestly that most of the wife beaters grew up that way. I don't think everyone would turn out that way, but I think growing up without it would make you be the same way with your kids. I think the more love you can show the better! I always make a point to tell my kids I love them and hug n kiss um!! I will do this until they think they are to old to get kisses from mom and shove me away. lol I grew up in a very loving family and turned out ok.
oh I also was told that touch helps with the learning process. Like if you rub your infants legs? They learn better.
2006-09-24 09:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by bermie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being one of 5 children in our family and constantly craving attention/ affection from my mum led to me having lots of one night stands, no self respect or self worth, feeling that i was never good enough or that i must have been really bad for her not to love me. When i had my daughter and it was her first christmas nativity play my mum was going to come to watch and she cancelled at the last minute. I felt that she was rejecting my daughter too and years of frustration,hurt,anger and rejection just took over and i knew then that if i didnt get some professional help then i would end up dead. I was put in contact with a fantastic counsellor who has helped me change my life. I am no longer looking for something from my mum and we get on so much better now. We speak on the phone and see each other a couple of times a month now and things are really good. She was able to tell me that things had happened to her during her younger years which she never dealt with and it made her emotionally numb and unable to be affectionate with any of us. I got married last year and when she looked at me in my wedding dress, i could see that she really loved me and was so proud of me. I am very affectionate with my children. I hug them and tell them how much i love them every day. They are everything to me.
2006-09-24 16:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest tragedy, what I've heard, is that newborns who receive no physical affection die. You can't raise a child strictly in a practical way - food, shelter, and rules.
2006-09-24 10:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by TarKettle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, I show my daughter too much affection sometimes. Well more then usual I think she is ok. She just gets lots of hugs.
I do have a hard time staying in relationships
2006-09-24 09:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this would make no difference at all, as a child does not know what they have or have not. I grew up believing that it was normal for people to get drunk and fight every day and I assure you there was no affection in our home
2006-09-24 09:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can cause long term damage it may cause the person to become angry and have some sort of mental illness and maybe the person could pass on the same traits as they dont no how to be affectionate. Also they may not be able to have a healthy relationship.
2006-09-24 09:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the scientist the become loners and criminals unable to effectively interact with society.
2006-09-24 09:46:03 · answer #11 · answered by moonguardianluna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋