2006-09-24 02:37:45 · 19 answers · asked by joan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a lose-lose situation the way YOU put it. If you choose the one you love it won't be a very gratifying relationship if the feeling isn't mutual, and if you choose the one that loves you, your heart will always yearn for another. SAD. I think I'll just keep searching and hopefully fall hard for the one that falls hard for me.
2006-09-24 02:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Duckjuice3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one who loves you. who knows you might find yourself in love with the person as well. I will choose the one I love IF she loves me as well. BUT this kind of situation is very rare.
2006-09-24 02:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by rick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you love.
2006-09-24 02:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one you love. You won't be happy if you are not in love with a person.
2006-09-24 02:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are people who said that it's better to have someone love you than you fall to someone deeply. Cause you may be more happy. When you love someone that did'nt love you as much as you do you'll be hurt. But when someone love you more than you and treat you so find, you may soon fall in love. But until now it's hard for me to accept that. I still choose the one that I love.
2006-09-24 02:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by v4nil7a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one who loves you
2006-09-24 02:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be both.
love is to be shared by two people.
you can choose the you love and later be loved.
and that's a challenge.
often it is difficult and sometimes could lead to frustration.
on the other hand, the one who loves you is someone you don't love.
but again, it's a matter of working it out for a meaningful relationship.
if you could patiently wait for the right person to love, then that's ideal.
2006-09-24 02:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by di_ako_guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems we as human beings choose the one who loves us, the one we love usually is untouchable. Our brain tells us to be loved apposed to loving whole heartily.
2006-09-24 02:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by starchild_kisschild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, both at the same time!!!!!!!
Because if any one I don't love I can't stick or stand with them . At the same time I can't live with some one who doesn't love me.
2006-09-24 02:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHOOSE the one who loves U.
The one u love may not love u .... but u kno the one who loves u really loves u.
ALL U NEED IS LOVE
2006-09-24 02:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by M u Z z I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋