She calls me on the telephone and we talk for hours sometmes about deep spirtual issues and sometimes about nothing inparticular.. I think i'm in love...
2006-09-23 23:29:45 · 23 answers · asked by jam1577 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is wonderful you have met a FRIEND. Speaking from experience: They can feel a deep connection to each other, but Love, I would think hard and long, LONG DISTANCES relationships usually don't work. You are infatuated now and some things in common, Try not talking so much on phone a few days and see what happens, don't answer It will take will power but if she truly is interested she'll wait for your call. Didn't specify, age or do you know what each other look like. something to think about, AND WHAT ABOUT YOUR JOBS ,seems there is alot of obstacles/but love is strange GOOD LUCK
2006-09-23 23:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miles should not tell you whom to love. If you are in love and it is possible for the two of you to move to a common location eventually, then it is not too far. I have been married to my soulmate for over 3 years. When we met online over 5 years ago, we lived 7,000 miles apart.
For a long distance relationship to work, however, eventually one of you needs to move so you can both be together. If you haven't done so already, go meet the girl in person. People can be very different in person sometimes than they appear online and on telephone.
2006-09-24 06:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by arizona wolfman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford the plane tickets and distance is no problem for you, then knock yourself out.
Personally I would want someone close by or within an hour or two driving range. Call me selfish, but I would want someone I can easily meet, talk to, and go out and do things with. I am sure I am not alone in this view. It is easy to find somone interesting on the web only to find out they live far, far away from you.
2006-09-24 06:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah! 3000 miles isn't too far at all. Keep the flames burning, If you have great conversation then is good yah! The main thing you will think about is how can we be together and over time you both will work things out. Go for it, love is a splendid thing.
2006-09-24 06:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not love, its lust. 3,000 is a 'weeeeeee biiiiit' to far to go. If you two are dead set in meeting, which I advice against, meet half way. No point in wasting a lot of money and time on someone who might not be who they say they are or not show up. She may seem genuine, but it is the Internet, oh wait, no one LIES on the INTERNET...lol Do what ever you want, but that is an awful long ways.
2006-09-24 06:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I live in Australia and my partner lives in the US and it is not too far for us. We maintain a loving and supportive relationship and will grow to know each other before we meet in person. So, no I do not think a trillion miles is too far when it comes to true love.
2006-09-24 06:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Orditz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have an one hour driving rule - anything over an hour is way to far. I think you are in infactuation - love requires a reasonable ability to meet the person.
2006-09-24 06:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur not in luv ur just excited a girl so far away from me is calling me n i think u have not seen her . look dude seeing is beleiving. if that girl turns out to be 65 wil u b stil in luv wid her. get up
2006-09-24 06:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's too far.
she will not want to come because for the fact that she has not seen u before.
or
No depending on u and Ur purse.
if you want to go to her u can. but be very careful.
2006-09-24 06:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by diji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great...just enjoy it...my sister met her now husband the same way...just make sure you have the chance to meet her in person sometime soon...otherwise it might not go anywhere...
2006-09-24 06:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Tanja S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋