im seeing a girl from last 2 weeks. till now we have met atleast for 5-6 times.i do like this girl and last week on her asking even told her if i can be lucky to make her a special person in my life.she said that we hardly met for coule of days and cant comment on this so early and askd for some time to know me beter. shw even said that the day she feels ready she wil tel me to propose her.Two days back we were talking on this thing and she told me that she knows what all i feel for her but she dont love me and dont like me more than a friend at moment.i reaaly want this girl to be with me cause she is a perfect person i need.the thiing is i can give her time but there is a friend of her who knows her from last 1 year. and according to her he is showing some intrest in her now like keep asking where she is and with whom.im afraid wht if tht guy proposed her and what if she accpted tht.plz help me i dont want to loose this girl what shall i do.
2006-09-23 23:20:17 · 14 answers · asked by rock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When the girl is not interested in you and likes you to be a good friend only, why are you after the girl knowing that she likes another guy who is going to propose her. Be a good friend for ever and come above selfishness.
2006-09-23 23:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was coming off too strong that quick. She has made it clear that she has no romantic feelings for you and wants you as a friend and nothing more. She has an interest in someone else but I see that she's also stringing you along. She's playing head games and you will be the one hurt emotionally in the end. You sound so desperate in your need to be with this girl and it's a one sided need. Try to take a few steps back and let things play out. Maybe you can find other people to hang out with and it might curb your attention away from her. That line about I'll let you know when you can propose to me is a straight up crock. That's a mixed message of I don't want you now but I am almost sure that I will later and I will let you know so you put your life on hold while I date this other guy. It doesn't work that way.
2006-09-23 23:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gentleman,
Jennifer, Rashil, ars32. BackinBow, Mystery Guest, Nishi, Nawab. g.e, ThaylenM, Smiles all of these wonderful Y-community's answers on this page are worth appreciating for U
Mr.Rock,
Live the meaning of the name U acquired "ROCK"
Be tough, This RELATION (Un)Like all relations this is the most selfish and prize centric relation which involves everything on the globe to participate in this RACE for people who take it as a competition
Mr.Tough, Be natural U need to be able to share all and be all in life together, U need to understand each other so deep that U keep fulfilling each others legitimate needs without reminding each other before u tie a knots thats how u may make ur relationship happily long lasting
Do U know that Feminine gender inclines to attract more towards guys who are wisely self decisive and independent.
HI ! C.mon ur talking about love,
Pls do not beg, borrow or steal
JUST Find it, Find the right person wait for right time
All other short cut solutions lead u to charity, vanity, suppression, depression, jealous, prized goal objects
Ofcourse U should WIN her 'heart' not the body,
only by means of emotional understanding
If U lose her OK she is not ur PRIZE,
UR lucky to lose her the BEST will replace her for ur happy life
Good Luck
2006-09-23 23:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
within a week or two the liking is derived from outer physical appearance.if u r impressed with her beauty and not qualities then u should forget her,
freedom is the greatest asset for everyone and if u like or love her , make her free to have her own opinion and not force her to choose u instead.marriages are more than likings. try to understand her, her desires, her likes , dislikes, what she likes to eat, whether u like her habits ,clothing, family background, education background , analyse u r self which type of girl will be best fit for u ,then only propose, no hurry or life long worry
2006-09-23 23:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by gcetpass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rock,
Releationships won't work on either 'first come frst served' or 'whoever sells best gets the deal'.
Please appreciate that she has a heart and a mind of her own and she's as anxious as you are. She's judnging who's the best fit for her, based on her own needs and assement parameters.
So my suggestion is to understand her view point - if possible have a frank chat. And see if there is an fit between the two of your expectations & realities. If there isn't a fit, its better that you part ways early.
happy times!
2006-09-23 23:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude chill, first of all find her best friend n ask all details abbout ur lady love n that guy. wen u meet girl (ur luv intrest) . dont impose ur feelings on her. be with her. try 2 meet her have candle light dinner n ask her wat does she think of u n that guy. propose 2 her if she is confused or not intrested give her some time. dont loose heart. remember there is always someone somewhere made 4 u n whatever happens happens 4 good
chhers
2006-09-23 23:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR ROCKS,
by two weeks u cant make any one special .may be cos u r giving her so much of attention n she does not know what is Ur true nature. So first stop giving her so much of attention n be normal. secondly don't try to impress her n if u don't get her remember your life is more important than her so don't sit n sob n waste your precious time n life
2006-09-24 04:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by just cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be it will work out for you and her. Anyway, unless she really wants to be with you and you only, what good is any of it? Believe it or not, she is not the only one in the world for you, but it may take some time for you to figure that out.
2006-09-23 23:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if d girl is only looking u as a friend then let her Its totaly d girl's choice whom 2 choose u or the another guy.
2006-09-24 00:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Shaily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REMEMBER THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, REASON BEONDY WHAT WE CAN CONTROL, IF ITS MEANT TO BE IT WILL, TURN IT OVER AND HAVE SOME FAITH....BUT DONT B TO PUSHY WITH HER IT MAY PUSH HER AWAY
2006-09-23 23:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋