i just keep missing my BF... i really cant do anything without thinking of him.. he calls me many many times, but even though i keep missing him... we dont go out alot, coz our full time at work but we keep in touch by phone and SMS 's ... what shall i do to stop missing? or is it normal to miss someone that much ???
i am lost plz help...
2006-09-23 23:15:21 · 18 answers · asked by S@D L@Dy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep keeping in touch, sweetie. And dont feel guilty for missing him. Just let him know you are. A guy is also really very soft on the inside. It gives him a lot of confidence to know he is wanted. Just remember, there is no substitute to spending quality time together. Make time. Change schedules just so you can be together. Nothing of value ever comes without an effort. best o luck!
2006-09-23 23:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by A M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal to miss ones partner to the extent that they are consumed by it, well it isn't really normal but it isn't abnormal. You need to be doing things to keep your mind occupied, take up a hobby of some kind something that you enjoy doing otherwise boredom will set in and thoughts of your boyfriend will set in.I understand how you feel that when you love someone so much you cant stop thinking about them, my wife lives 6000km away and it will be 6 months before we will be together. You must have friends, family that can help you keep your mind occupied.
If this problem becomes totally consuming then I would suggest you seek counselling because you will allow this problem to consume you completely.....not a good thing. Good luck.
2006-09-23 23:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to miss someone so much, even more so if it's a new relationship. I can't really tell you what to do to stop missing him but I would advise making the most of the time you have with him.
2006-09-23 23:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really nice. Missing someone you love is good. But missing too much can be obsessive. It can be unhealthy for your mind and body. I would suggest you to write a journal in which you let out your feelings. It helps a lot. Good luck sweetie =)
2006-09-23 23:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Huda_Alee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.....try to keep your self busy....think about this: if some day for some reason or another, you get apart from each other...you are going a die.!!!!!....you have to do something else on life that think about him, try to study some, find u a hobby, and also get you some friends, in order to keep your self busy, cz also he can be tired of this, specially man, they don't want a feel like in a jail in a woman's arms.....you need your space, and so he does, This is kinda sick. I am telling you this based on my experience.
2006-09-23 23:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ritamorales. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer kiss him! it incredibly is an severe representation, whether my buddy and that i've got been fantastically close, each and each women, the two straight away, and sometime purely kissed one yet another for relaxing. i'm no longer joking it bring about extra random kisses and finally random thoughts for one one extra. They finally ended as we are the two extra concerned with men, whether the kisses purely threw the best purchase off and made all of it strange. She's whether my superb buddy whether it truthfully made concerns distinctive and that i'm no longer particular in a sturdy way.
2016-10-01 07:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like young love to me. Time will curb the seperation stress that you feel right now. It's good that you two keep in touch but too much can turn out to be too much.
2006-09-23 23:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy! It seems like a madness but u'll miss it when it stops and it will eventually , u are just so in love and thats great, hope it will last a long time ... Cheers
2006-09-23 23:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is 100% normal. Donot worry I know U surely love your B/F too much. Keep in touch with him. Love would bloom.
2006-09-23 23:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by benny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to miss your loved one.
Just send emails or post pictures to one another to keep the flame going.
Again, it's normal to miss someone!!
2006-09-23 23:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋