i did a lot to her and sacrifised a lot but she just left me only for a other guy who she knew only 5 months ago m helpless and broken
2006-09-23 22:51:24 · 11 answers · asked by raf's 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wish I could help you!
Personally, I don't think it works to forget. It's more that with time, you forgive, and your life fills again with new things...
In my life, it was like a plant: A large part is cut off, the plant almost dies... but it doesn't die. It starts growing again. The part that was cut off will always be missing, but it matters less and less as time goes by and the plant grows new branches in all directions. You think your life is over and pointless, but then after a while, you find that you have a new life and it is good.
Everyone is different in how to deal with such a situation. For me, it was good to have no contact and to believe that that exact person whom I wanted no longer existed. The person with the same name was still walking around somewhere, but it was a different person. I mean, maybe it helps: to tell yourself that the lady is now a different person, not the person you want, since you do not want the lady who has left you like that. You want the lady she used to be when she wanted to be with you, but that lady no longer exists.
I had to get it into my head that it was over forever. That's how you can turn towards other things. But you don't have to forget. You can keep all the nice memories, you always keep that beautiful part of your life in your heart, but you make yourself free for a new life with new beauty, which -as experience tells me- is sure to come.
2006-09-23 23:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer would be to do drugs, and lots of them. (just kidding). There are lots of other fish in the sea my friend, this could be a great opportunity to start fresh and find someone new and exciting. When i was in high school i was dating this girl for two years and then one day she just dumped me for her ex boyfriend. I was crushed and up-set, but two days later i meet the women who would be the mother of my children and my best friend for the better part of ten years. So this is a beginning and not an ending so go out their and get em.
2006-09-23 23:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to forget this girl, well thats a hard task! you can't control what your heart feels but you can control what happens nxt in your life. I know how you feel having your heart broken and getting over this girl that is so special to you is going to be hell. Just take it one day at a time, i wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-23 22:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would be he desires some time. till finally now he did no longer discover any yet another female suitable. purely shop fairly for some time and communicate with him, tell him that what you're feeling approximately him. If he provides solutions then ask how lots time he desires to take. What he's feeling approximately you. in case you dont' want to grant him time, purely overlook approximately him and experience some time.. be chuffed.. somebody may even see your smile and could be fallin love with you.. take care each and all the superb.
2016-10-01 07:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying to forget her and realize you have suffered a loss. its normal to grieve for that loss. why she left you may hurt alot now but have a little faith that this will get easier in time and you will find someone else to love. be glad you don't have kids with her and this happened. its alright to hurt for this and there are no quick fixes here. its not fair to just run out and get another girl now cause your still in love with the last one. you might always love her in a way but its not meant to be.
2006-09-23 23:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't forget her coz' she became a part of ur life whether u like it or not.. it's in your memory. u can recall and remember/ reminisce it anytime. u can't change the past. we can't undo every single act we performed nor we can erase a single word we've said.. but the past has gone.. if tomorrow comes, today will be yesterday.. tomorrow is another day for you to move on.. u can't forget but u can forgive and u can accept the past.. through acceptance, u can move on with ur life.. past is past but u can get a lesson from the past.. GOD Bless! good luck!
2006-09-23 23:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget about her if you can or if you really can't do it then try to be good friend and then you can still talk to her and be her friend and then she might be interested in you one day. Good luck!
2006-09-23 23:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Oww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date someone else and try to forget her,time helps u!
2006-09-23 22:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by nanuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another object. That MUST help!
2006-09-23 22:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lady G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world. Nothing beats fallin down and hitting rock bottom like that....
2006-09-23 22:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋